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A Tribute To Bobby Duncan Goodbye, My Friend Bobby Duncan, 1934-1999 Dad . . . A Tribute To Bobby Duncan Precious Memories Of A Cherished Friend Tribute To Bobby Duncan The Bobby Duncan I Knew Standing "In The Gap" Uncle Bob A Respected Brother Bobby Duncan: A Great Co-worker Bob Duncan Life, Death And Hope Directions To The Grave Of Bobby Duncan |
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![]() VIGIL: Volume 28 - No. 1, January, 2000 |
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| A Tribute To Bobby Duncan | |
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This issue is dedicated to the work and memory of Bobby Duncan. We, the
elders of Adamsville, were deeply saddened by the unexpected death of
brother Duncan.
He was a close personal friend and brother in Christ to each one of us.
He was invaluable to the eldership based on his knowledge of the
scriptures and his association with faithful brethren. His wisdom and
balance prevented him from leaning too heavily to the right or to the
left. He always stayed abreast of the issues concerning the church, and
his interest in the welfare of the church was such that he spent time in
keeping us informed. This information greatly influenced us in our
decision to stand for the truth. We depended upon him and frequently
asked him questions to which he gave wise answers. While so many would
classify him as a preacher's preacher, we always thought of him as an
elder's preacher. He gave unselfishly of his time to us, yet he never
once tried to control the eldership. The cooperation, mutual respect and
love we had with each other were extraordinary. Whenever we made a
decision, he never criticized us, but supported us in every way. He also
preached to the congregation the necessity of respecting and supporting
the eldership and her work.
We realize what a valuable asset he was to the congregation here at
Adamsville and to the entire brotherhood. His knowledge of God's Word
was due to the long hours of study, and we benefited from it. His study
habits began very early, frequently at four o'clock in the morning: He
was diligent in visiting the hospitals. He was often called late at
night during times of distress, and was one of the first to arrive. He
always made himself available to the members of the congregation, even
providing his wisdom and counsel to help members with their problems. He
was an outstanding pulpit preacher with an enormous ability to teach
both publicly and privately. He was a unique man in that he could attain
the small children, yet also edify the older brethren as well. He was a
complete preacher to the congregation for which he labored over
thirty-four years.
His concern and love for Christ's church were reflected in various
articles, not only in Vigil, but in the Spiritual Sword
and other publications and sermons, from which so many were also
influenced. His wisdom and counsel were sought by so many preachers,
elderships and individuals. His book, The Elders
Which Are Among You, has
helped countless numbers. He was in great demand for gospel meetings,
lectureships, and special speaking engagements. He also encouraged the
attendance of other local gospel meetings, and promoted such from the
Adamsville pulpit. He never tired of hearing the Bible preached.
Lois, Jill and Tim, our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you. Thank you for unselfishly allowing him to spend long hours with us in our work together. We appreciate the sacrifices you made for our benefit and the cause of Christ. We are honored by the close relationship we had with Bob for these many years.
—Elders,
Adamsville Church of Christ, Adamsville, Alabama,
4207 Adamsville Parkway Adamsville, AL 35005 |
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| “Good-bye, My Friend” | |
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The year was 1975, I had just finished three and one half years of
graduate school at Texas A&M University, and accepted a position in the
University's College of Veterinary Medicine. I was 25 years old, green
as a gourd, "wet behind the ears," and yet, in spite of all that,
I was about to make one of the smartest decisions of my entire existence—a
decision that would garner to me a friend, and a friendship, the likes
of which few people on this Earth ever are fortunate enough to
experience. Several months before, I had begun subscribing to the weekly
religious
journal,
Words of Truth, published by the Sixth Avenue Church of Christ
in Jasper, Alabama and edited by the inimitable Gospel preacher who
spent almost 43 years there, Gus Nichols. I
was impressed with what I read in each week's issue and, although I
never had met him, with everything I read from the powerful pen of the
paper's renowned editor. "What a wonderful thing," I thought,
"to use talents such as those he possessed to teach people Truth via the
written word." That idea appealed to me. And so even though I knew—to use a biblical
phrase—that brother
Nichols was one "the lachet of whose shoes I was not worthy to stoop
down and unloose" (Mark 1:7), I nevertheless boldly decided to write
an article and submit it to him to be considered for publication in
Words of Truth. He never saw that article. It arrived
in his office the day he died.
When I read the announcement in the November 21, 1975 issue of
Gus Nichols' death five days earlier on
November 16, I grieved: for his family, at the loss of a husband and
father; for the Sixth Avenue congregation at the loss of so powerful a
preacher; for our great brotherhood, at the loss of so wise a scholar
and so valiant a soldier; and (selfishly) for myself, at the loss of so
esteemed an editor-under whose tutelage a young neophyte such as myself
never was to have the opportunity to work and to learn.
Little did I know, however, that my personal grief soon was to be
assuaged by another editor who, I eventually would come to realize, was
every bit as capable, and every bit as worthy of esteem, as the late
Gus Nichols—who,
in fact, had spent years training him to pick up the sword that he knew
he one day would have to lay down. Weeks later, a letter from him
arrived-unheralded and unexpected, but oh, so deeply appreciated. His
name was Bobby Duncan. He had just been hired by the elders of the Sixth
Avenue congregation to fill the pulpit left vacant as a result of
brother Nichols' untimely death, and to
assume the editorial helm of Words of Truth. At brother
Nichols' passing, the Sixth Avenue elders
wisely determined (no doubt due in large part to the fact that they
wished to honor Gus Nichols' lifetime
commitment to the congregation and to the journal) that Words of
Truth should continue its longstanding tradition of teaching,
upholding, and defending the Old Jerusalem Gospel—a
tradition that it maintains to this very hour.
In the brief interim period between brother
Nichols' death and Bobby Duncan's arrival at the Sixth Avenue
congregation on Sunday, May 2, 1976, Flavil Nichols (who had been
serving as associate editor) graciously agreed to serve as editor, yet
willingly relinquished that position when Bobby's first editorial
appeared in the May 7, 1976 issue of the paper. On the first day in his
new office, Bobby found my letter to brother
Nichols, and the accompanying article I had sent with it, sitting on
top of a pile of unopened mail on the desk to which Gus never would
return after his entrance into the hospital for the last time. Bobby
wrote me a letter to inform me of brother
Nichols' passing, to thank me for the article (which I had titled,
"The American Standard Version (1901): A Recommended Version")
and to tell me that he planned to run it in two parts in Words of
Truth—which
he did on May 21 and 28, 1976. Thus began his 20-year journey of being
my editor, my mentor, and most importantly, my friend.
At the request of his family, I stand here today to reminisce about, and
rejoice in, a friendship that endured for more than two decades and that
blessed my life, and the lives of countless others, in ways that I
cannot begin to enumerate or explain in this brief eulogy. And although
in the end my efforts here today may be feeble and my words may falter,
I would like to talk to you about the quiet grace, the towering
strength, the humble demeanor, and the Christ-like spirit of my mentor,
Bobby Duncan. This eulogy is my symbolic way of standing at
attention—with tear-filled eyes, a broken heart, and an indescribable
sense of loss—to salute with honor our fallen comrade and to pay homage
to my very special friend.
Although we had corresponded by letter on numerous occasions, I first
had the pleasure of meeting Bobby Duncan early in 1979. On his own, he
had gone to the Sixth Avenue elders to ask them if it would be all right
to invite me to present one of my new Science & Nature
seminars for the congregation. When he called to extend the invitation
for me to come during the weekend of January 27-29, 1979, I asked him
why he had done this. To this day, I never have forgotten his deadpan
response. With no emotion whatsoever, the voice on the other end of the
phone said matter-of-factly, "Oh, I just wanted to see if you speak
like you write. And if you can't, we'll never invite you back." Talk
about putting on the pressure! During the long plane ride from College
Station, Texas to Birmingham, Alabama, the thought kept swirling through
my mind: "How am I ever going to pull this off?" Here I was—not
even 30 years old—and
I was going to be lecturing to an audience with Bobby Duncan, Flavil
Nichols, and Franklin Camp sitting on the front
row "grading me" on my performance. Not a pleasant thought!
In one way, however, I was glad to have the opportunity to meet Bobby
because I had something "stuck in my craw" that I wanted to
discuss with him face to face. Shortly after he published my very first
article, I sent him another one—which
he never got around to publishing. Or, to put it more bluntly—which
he flatly rejected. As we drove from the airport in Birmingham to the
church building in Jasper, I asked him why he hadn't published my
article. He turned, looked at me, and said somewhat sternly: "Because
it wasn't any good. You can do better." Ever the dedicated editor,
he took his job—and
mine—seriously.
If you intended to run in his circles, or write for his paper, you had
to "do better." My ego somewhat bruised, I returned home after
the weekend speaking engagement and re-read the article that he had
refused to print. He was right; it wasn't any good. He taught me a
lesson I never would forget; I should work harder—and
I could do better.
"Better"
was the hallmark of his life. He was a better scholar than most.
He was a better writer than most. He was a better preacher
than most. He was a better dad than most. He was a better
husband than most. He was a better granddad than most. He was a
better friend than most. He was, well, he was just better!
And because of that, I sought his counsel often. Late in 1979, Wayne
Jackson and I decided to begin the work of Apologetics Press. We
desperately wanted to produce biblically sound, scientifically accurate,
and yet understandable materials in the fields of Christian Apologetics
and Christian Evidences to help fill what we viewed as a serious void in
our great brotherhood regarding such items. After much prayer and
deliberation, I decided to resign my professorship in the College of
Veterinary Medicine at Texas A&M in order to devote full time to this
kind of work. But that required securing financial support. And so I
called Bobby to ask his advice. He told me that if I would get on a
plane and fly to Alabama right then, he would help me raise the support.
I dropped everything, flew to Alabama, and stayed with him and Lois for
three days, during which time he called elderships all around the Walker
County area on my behalf. By the time I left, I had over half of the
required monthly support raised—no thanks, I might add, to my own
efforts. Almost everyone of the congregations he called had agreed to
help, such was the power of his recommendation and reputation. And today—twenty
years later—many of those congregations (like Blackwater Macedonia,
Adamsville, Cordova, and others) still continue providing the support
that Bobby Duncan raised for my work.
Five short years later, in February 1984, I was in desperate need of his
help again. This time, however, it wasn't financial aid, but spiritual
advice that I needed. I was struggling to write a booklet titled
Non-Denominational Christianity: Is Unity Possible? to address the
unorthodox and unscriptural positions of a well-known preacher in
Montgomery at the time who was flirting openly with what eventually came
to be known as the "change agent movement" within the church. I
telephoned Bobby to ask if I could drive to Adamsville (where he was
preaching at the time) to discuss the book's contents with him. He
graciously granted me an audience and reworked his otherwise tight
schedule to assist me. In the end, he and Franklin
Camp (whose guidance likewise turned out to be invaluable) spent
almost an entire day helping me understand the critical facets of the
new movement and working with me to iron out important concepts that
they knew would have to be incorporated into the book if it was to
achieve its goal of exposing and refuting the assault upon the Lord's
church.
Fifteen years later, I still was seeking his advice and guidance upon
which I had leaned often and that I had learned long ago could be
trusted implicitly. Just a month ago, I began work on a series of
articles on "The Origin, Nature, and Destiny of the Soul" to be
published in Reason and Revelation, the monthly journal
on Christian evidences published by Apologetics Press. Little did I
realize, as I began my research, the "deep waters" into which I
was about to wade. After completing the first two articles in the
four-part series, I realized that I needed scholarship far greater than
any I possessed to fine tune, evaluate, and improve the articles. I
called Bobby and asked if I could send him the articles to proof-read.
As always, he graciously agreed to help. Less than a week later, he
returned the articles, along with his ever appropriate constructive
criticisms and a hand-written note that read simply, "Good stuff;
thank you for allowing me to have a part in this." Each and every
one of his corrections and suggestions, of course, was incorporated into
the final draft. Such was the nature of his scholarship—and
his attitude of humility toward those working beside him in what he
considered the greatest work on earth.
It was because of such brilliant scholarship, and such an humble
attitude, that in 1988 Wayne Jackson and I dedicated the third volume in
our Essays in Apologetics series to him with this inscription: To Bobby
Duncan—whose
preaching and writing labors have blessed the lives of countless
thousands through the years, and whose support and encouragement of this
work have been gratefully received. It always was important to him to do
everything within his power to encourage others in their work in the
Kingdom, especially those who were younger and who needed a helping hand
in both their own personal growth and their fledgling efforts on behalf
of the Lord's church. Certainly, I am not the only one who has been the
recipient of his beneficent influence. Truth be told, I suspect that if
I were to ask those of you in this audience today whose lives have been
enriched as a result of having known Bobby Duncan to raise your hands, a
veritable sea of arms would fill the air.
I, personally, know one young man sitting in this audience whose life
never will be the same as a result of having come into contact, albeit
briefly, with Bobby Duncan. A little over a year ago, I had the pleasure
of studying the Gospel with an incredible twenty-year-old young man from
the Montgomery area by the name of Sam Estabrook. Sam had what every
teacher of the Gospel yearns for in a potential convert—an
open mind and a tender heart. Upon learning what God had instructed him
to do to be saved, he obeyed. On September 8, 1998, I baptized Sam into
Christ, and a little over a month later he was able to begin working
with us at Apologetics Press in the position of Operations Manager. As
his spiritual growth began to blossom—and
be increasingly evident to those around him—Sam
was asked by Steve Housley, minister of the Eastern Meadows Church of
Christ in Montgomery where we worship, to write a brief article for the
weekly bulletin. He accepted, and wrote an excellent article titled
"Has Man Seen God?" dealing with several Bible verses that critics
have suggested contradict each other. Bobby Duncan saw that article and
called me to inquire about Sam and his potential as a writer. A day or
so later, Bobby wrote Sam a letter requesting his permission to publish
the article in Vigil, the monthly journal (for which Bobby served as
editor) published by the Adamsville congregation. Sam's article appeared
in the September 1999 issue, and that article, plus another he
co-authored, appeared in the October, 1999, issue of Reason and
Revelation. Bobby, I happen to know (because he mentioned it to me just
days ago), had jotted down on his list of "things to do" the task
of asking Sam to write another article for Vigil—because
he wanted to do everything he could to encourage this new Christian in
his daily walk with the Lord.
And thus he began once more the process of taking under his wing another
youngster—a
fledgling writer whose talents he wanted to encourage and whose future
he wanted to ensure—just
like the one who stands before you today that he so methodically
adopted, tutored, and cultivated 23 years ago. To thank him, last Friday—I
wrote him a letter. But just like that letter I sent to the editor of
Words of Truth almost a quarter-of-a-century ago, Bobby
Duncan never got to read it. Like my correspondence to
Gus Nichols, it arrived on his desk the day
he died. It—like
my missive to brother Nichols—was
found sitting on top of a pile of unopened mail on the desk to which
Bobby never would return after his entrance into the hospital for the
last time.
But that's quite all right, because in his heart he knew that I had
spent the last twenty years attempting to repay him for what he had done
for me and for my work. He knew that I understood what he was trying to
accomplish with me, with Sam, and with so many others whose lives he
touched during his all-too-brief 65 years in our midst. But more
importantly, he accomplished what he set to do. Before he departed to
receive his crown of glory, he was able to do two things to ensure that
his life's work would continue. First, he trained those of us who are
younger to follow in his footsteps. Like the apostle Paul, he could say
to us and mean it, "Imitate me as I imitate Christ" (I
Corinthians 11:1). Second, thanks to his never-ending diligence, his
untiring study, and his careful scholarship, he has left behind, an
invaluable legacy contained in more than 40 years' worth of sermons,
editorials, articles, and manuscripts that will continue to bless the
lives of thousands yet even unborn. And as those materials continue to
be circulated and reprinted in the days, months, and years to come,
truly it will be said of Bobby Duncan that he, "being dead, yet
speaketh" (Hebrews 11:4).
Some of us owe him more than we ever shall be able to repay. My name is
at the top of that list. If we who now remain behind wish to honor our
fallen friend, can we not best do so by living as he lived, teaching as
he taught, and making the most of each day as a precious gift from God
as he did? To Lois, Jill, Tim, and all of the extended Duncan family, I
would like to say this. He taught us wisely and loved us deeply. He
spent his life sacrificing for us and setting a proper example for us.
He stood for Truth and opposed error, yet he did so without becoming
mean-spirited, hateful, or radical. His life was the epitome of balance,
and our lives are richer by far for having known and loved him. Thank
you for sharing him with us so unselfishly. —Bert Thompson, Dec. 6, 1999 Apologetics Press 230 Landmark Drive Montgomery, AL 36117-2752 334/272-8558 |
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| Bobby Duncan 1934-1999 | |
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What a shock it was to all of us for our beloved brother to leave us so
unexpectedly Saturday! Yet we reserve no doubt to where he is at this
time. It has been approximated that over a thousand people viewed his
body Sunday night. Hundreds filled the auditorium over capacity at his
funeral Monday, with several hundred being preachers who respected him
greatly.
Bobby Duncan carne into this life May 9, 1934, in Jacksonville, Alabama.
In 1945, he was baptized by brother Joe Hyde. He began to preach in
1951. He decided to attend Freed-Hardeman where he earned his degree,
and furthered his education at Jacksonville State, Birmingham Southern,
and Southern Christian University. He was known for his great writing
ability. He began a monthly paper called the VIGIL on May 14, 1973, and
served as her editor for over twenty years. He also edited the Words Of
Truth while he lived in Jasper, Alabama. He served as one of the staff
writers for the Spiritual Sword. He wrote countless articles in defense
of the truth of the gospel. He was meticulous in his editing, which made
him such a fine editor. He wrote a fabulous book, The Elders Which Are
Among You, as well as several booklets.
He was known for his longevity. He began his preaching in Munford,
Alabama in 1956. Two years later he moved to work in Adamsville,
Alabama. He spent a brief period of time in Jasper, Alabama, following
the late Gus Nichols as pulpit minister of the Sixth Avenue Church of
Christ. After seven years, he returned to Adamsville to preach for over
thirty years combined. His love for the Adamsville congregation and her
elders was testimony to his success as their minister.
He was known for his preaching. He was not only a master in the pulpit,
but did extensive work in radio and television. He was invited to speak
at several lectureships and seminars yearly. He held many gospel
meetings during his lifetime, and was usually booked for years in
advance. He preached the gospel in simplicity and soundness of the
truth. He filled his lessons with God's Word and spoke them eloquently.
He was known for his wisdom. Because of his book on elders, his counsel
was sought many times. As he would describe various other great gospel
preachers, he was indeed a preacher's preacher. Many would come and
visit in his office to discuss various things. Many would call to seek
his recommendation.
He was known for his balance. He did not turn to his right hand or to
his left. He was opposed to extremism on both sides. He lived his life,
wrote his articles, and preached his sermons in balance. He was known
for his teaching. He taught many preacher
students as an adjunct professor at Faulkner University, including this
author. He not only taught by what he said, but by the way he lived. He
was a mentor to so many. He loved his physical family, showering them with devotion. He loved the church for whom Christ died, and for which he gave his life to serve. He loved every member of the congregation at Adamsville. He loved the elders of Adamsville under whom he served. He will be deeply missed by all of us whose lives he has touched. —Sam
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A dad, a real dad, only happens once in life. Some never even get the
one chance to experience it. They may never have the opportunity to know
the one who brags when you take those . first steps. The one who pitches
to you in the back yard for "just one more," twenty more times.
The one who returns from a long trip with a special present (sometimes
it is the simplest of gifts, but he brought it). The one who really
means it when he says, "This will hurt me more than it will hurt you.
" The one you see love your mother with all his heart and treat her
like a queen. The one you hear yelling your name over the rest of the
crowd even when he knows you're going to strike out. The one who through
his life shows you how to love a God that at times doesn't seem to be
anywhere around, yet is actually present with you all the way. The one
who has so much love for you that he will let you go your own way in
your walk of life and just hope he did enough.
I had a father like this. Dad showed me more than I could ever fit in
this entire issue of VIGIL. He stood firm in his
convictions to the Cross and Christ's church. He epitomized the role of
a husband to our family by cherishing mom and their commitments
together. Dad left no doubt of his pride for my sister and me and our
families. Even though, like all fathers and sons, we had our
disagreements, we tended to agree on the things that truly mattered.
The illness that led to his passing is really not of importance. What
matters is that he is in the place he always wanted to be - singing with
the angels (no doubt telling them when they are a bit flat).
A dad, a real dad, only happens once in life. I am so grateful I got my
chance.
On behalf of the Duncan family, I would like to thank the countless many
for your compassion for each of us. For all the flowers, cards, calls,
meals, letters, visits and especially the prayers, we are grateful. Your
concern during this difficult time continues to give us comfort. We are
blessed to have such wonderful care that is evidence of God's abiding
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| A Tribute To Bobby Duncan | |
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Last Monday
morning I attended the funeral service of my friend, Bobby Duncan. He,
like every other human being, will stand before Jesus to be judged (Acts
17:30-31). I have known Bobby for most of my life and count it as one of
life's cherished blessings. He was a man of conviction and courage. I
had the special privilege of having him as a friend. He had time to
listen, talk and advise. Bobby made God proud and I assure you that the
angelic host knows him personally; for he made the church for which our
Lord died what God intended for it to be. The intent of this article is
not to stand in the place of our Lord in judgment but simply reflect
upon brother Duncan's influence and example. I truly loved this man.
1. I am thankful. Bobby's
love for truth and concern for the church in our materialistic,
hell-bound society was unique. His influence upon so many gospel
preachers will reap untold glory to God. His writings, tapes and words
of exhortation will continue to strengthen and edify the church and
challenge error.
2. I am sad. The church of
Christ has lost one of its great warriors. I (we all) knew the church
was in good hands with Bobby Duncan. He was genuine and straightforward.
The church has lost a giant of a gospel preacher, the Lord, a faithful
servant, the brethren, a godly brother and the world, a pure Christian
influence.
3. I am happy. He has now
crossed the chilly waters and will now enjoy the presence of God and
heaven's hosts. The great hosts of the saved is now a bit sweeter. There
we will find Amos, Paul, Mary and Bobby.
4. I am concerned. Who
will / can take
his place? With so many trying to change the church and make it what God
never intended, we are now without one of God's faithful. I call on all
my fellow preachers to make your stand now and fight for the church of
Christ. No one can "replace" Bobby, but we can all do our part.
5. I am praying. My fervent
prayer is that our God will send more like Bobby. He believed the Book,
he respected God and served Christ. We must develop more young men to be
gospel preachers and train them to preach the Word. How we need more
like Bobby Duncan! —Ken Butterworth |
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| Precious Memories Of A Cherished Friend | |
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Brother Duncan will be remembered in many ways. He will especially be
remembered as one of the outstanding Gospel preachers of his generation.
Two passages best describe his role in that regard. "Preach the word;
be instant in season, out of season, reprove, rebuke, exhort with all
longsuffering and doctrine" (2 Timothy 4:2). "But speaking the
truth in love . . ." (Ephesians 4:15). To preach the word, speaking
the truth, but speaking it in love is the supreme challenge every
preacher faces. Brother Duncan met that challenge well.
His preaching would be characterized by clarity. Preaching that is not
understood or is not to the point is of no benefit. Brother Duncan's
preaching was always practical as well as biblical. It was easy to
understand and always helpful. One cannot help but think of Nehemiah 8:8
when thinking of Bob. "So they read in the book of the law of God
distinctly, and gave the sense, and caused them to understand the
reading."
It was my unique privilege to have seen brother Duncan, the preacher,
from two different perspectives. One of them was as "my preacher."
I was fortunate enough to have grown up at Adamsville. Our family
moved to that side of Birmingham when I was fifteen years old. That was
about the time I was beginning to think about preaching the Gospel. He
had a lot to do with that decision.
Growing up under his influence had its benefits. During those days
brother Duncan did a lot of work with the youth of the Adamsville
congregation. He conducted a "youth chorus" that practiced
singing on Wednesday evenings before Bible study. He also had a men's
training class on Sunday afternoon. It was in that class that I made my
first "talk." It was straight out of a book, word for word. In
spite of that he encouraged me. He told me where I had done well and
where I could improve. Several students in that class went on to preach,
some full-time and others part-time. Thus his preaching influence lives
on.
I also had the privilege of working as his associate. A year and a half
after graduating from Freed-Hardeman, our family moved to Jasper to work
with the Sixth Avenue congregation. There could have been no more
valuable experience than those four years. The hours spent in the office
studying the Bible, observing his work as a preacher with a
congregation, and seeing how wonderfully he worked with people taught
lessons that cannot be learned in a class room. He had an amazing
ability to deal patiently with people. To the best of his ability he was
always there for the members of the congregation where he worked. He
very unselfishly gave of his time and energy to minister to people in
their hour of need.
Brother Duncan also loved singing. His excellent tenor voice is
something we will always remember. He often used that voice to sing for
funerals. My wife, Janie, sister Edna Ellis, brother Duncan, and I sang
for scores of funerals in Jasper and Walker county. There were many
occasions when he and a small group of people, usually including his
brother Clifford and nephew Ed, would stand around and just sing.
Under his influence the Gospel became more clear. The doctrine of
spiritual security started to come into focus during a sermon I heard
him preach when I was a teenager. The text from which he preached was 1
John 1:7. Since that Sunday evening it has been a tremendous comfort to
know that there is security for those who "walk in the light."
Under his teaching souls were saved. There are people in heaven who
learned the Gospel from brother Duncan, through his preaching and
personal evangelism. Personal evangelism was always a part of his local
work. He was good with people. People from all walks of life were
comfortable around him.
I will remember him as an unselfish friend. The only heat in our house
in Jasper was a wood burning stove. One cold winter evening, returning
from a week's vacation, we were dreading going into a cold house with
small children. Much to our surprise we arrived at home to find a fire
in the stove and the house warm. That was not the last time he did that.
He was never asked to do it. He just did it because he was a friend.
That will never be forgotten.
You did not work with Bob without seeing that he was so devoted to his
family. His love for Lois was so easy to see. He always showed her the
utmost courtesy and respect. His devotion to his children, Jill and Tim,
was equally obvious. He was a tremendous role model in this regard.
Brother Duncan will be remembered as the epitome of a Gospel preacher.
His Bible knowledge will continue to speak through his writings. His
influence upon the cause of Christ will continue to live through
preachers
he
encouraged. He was a mentor to many of us. I will remember him for all
of these things. Above all, I will remember him as a godly Christian
gentleman, a devoted family man, an outstanding "local" preacher,
and a cherished friend. —Ron Harper, 1115 Minerva Drive Murfreesboro, TN 37130 |
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Brother Duncan loved to preach and he loved gospel preachers. He loved
the gospel preachers who handed the Old Jerusalem torch of truth to him
and others. He loved those who were younger and to whom he unselfishly
and with no bitterness of spirit handed that same torch of truth. It had
burned brightly during his eventful life. No young man ever had a finer
booster than he. His words of encouragement soon became legion.
A prince among men, an able preacher among proclaimers and a stalwart
soldier of Calvary has now run his last mile and fought his last battle.
May we be true to the old paths for which he pleaded so earnestly and
eloquently during his life ·time. The world is better because he lived.
He influenced thousands to walk the high road of holiness. He lived to
serve. He served to save. "Know ye not that there is a prince and a
great man fallen this day in Israel" (2 Sam. 3:38). I remember him
as strong for the truth, witty and lovable in conversation and generous
in his support of the work of the Lord.
He was an outstanding writer. Great as he was in all other fields, he
probably did his greatest work with his pen. His writings will live long
after his other work has faded from the memory of men. Few men in the
brotherhood ever wrote on a greater variety of subjects with benefit to
their readers and credit to themselves than did Brother Duncan.
We have lost a faithful worker. He will be greatly missed; but, like
Abel, "he being dead yet speaketh." Brother Duncan has had a
profound influence for good on the cause of Christ. Hundreds of gospel
preachers were greatly influenced by him. As an educator, author,
writer, and gospel preacher, he will be long remembered. We need more
men of the spiritual stature of Brother Duncan.
Lives of great men all remind us We can make our lives sublime; And,
departing, leave behind us Footprints on the sands of Time.
I humbly thank God that the life of Bobby Duncan touched mine. He like
other great men, Franklin Camp, Gus Nichols, Winfred Clark, G.C. Brewer,
Foy Wallace, and Guy N. Woods, have had a profound influence upon me. I
have been able to accomplish but little in the Master's service, and
will never be able to reach the height of stature he reached in God'~
kingdom; but what little
I am able to do will be, in great measure, due to his influence.
To Sister Duncan, Mrs. Wortham joins me in saying: "God bless you and
keep you, and may you ever be conscious of the fact that Brother Duncan
still lives to love and remember you. With the poet let us sing,
I cannot say, and I will not say,
With a cheery smile
And you—O
you, who the wildest pain His brother in Christ, —Thomas Wortham |
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| The Bobby Duncan I Knew |
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The late summer of 1952 was eventful for me and resulted in a change in
my life, much of which was due to the influence of Bobby Duncan. By some
act of fate, or was it Providence, we became roommates at Freed-Hardeman
College. I was a lad from Michigan and he was from Jacksonville, Alabama—quite
a contrast.
I had seldom had the opportunity of hearing great preachers since my
father worked the night shift for General Motors, but Bobby seemed to
have heard them all. His greatest hero was brother Gus Nichols. As we
lay in bed after lights out he often spoke of this great man. He said
that when he first went to hear him he looked down front and thought,
"That is the ugliest man I have ever seen! But after he had preached a
half hour he got better looking, after an hour better looking still, and
after two hours I thought he was the best looking man I
had ever seen." Bobby loved the plain preaching of the gospel which
created his love for preachers. He made it his youthful desire to be
like Gus Nichols. I knew that if he were ever invited to fill the Sixth
Avenue pulpit in Jasper after brother Gus departed he would accept it as
one of the greatest honors in life. He did just that.
I was impressed by the self-assurance Bobby had, how he could get up
before an audience of college students or any other group and lead
singing or speak without a qualm. He came from a singing family and had
experiences I could only wish for. During our first year of school Bobby
regularly hitchhiked on Saturdays to Carbon Hill, Alabama, where a
beautiful young lady by the name of Lois Ann Elliott lived. She was
undoubtedly the only true love of his life. He persuaded me, against all
my mother's instruction, to make the trip with him one weekend. It was
quite memorable as we were picked up by a one-legged man, a drunk, and
two young men who stopped at what appeared once to have been a gas
station to purchase a bag of something. It contained two bottles.
Mississippi was then a "dry" state. Our driver soon asked if we
wanted a "snort" to which Bobby quickly replied, "No."
One driver wanted to discuss the Bible and to defend the "baptism is
not necessary to salvation idea." I was embarrassed in that
discussion not to even properly quote Mark 16:16 and Bobby had to finish
it for me. From a very early age he had learned the Scriptures well.
I came to stand in some awe of Bobby's accomplishments. At
Freed-Hardeman in those days each freshman student had to attend a
spelling class during lunch hour until one could pass a short test by
marking each vowel with the proper diacritical symbol. Only then could
one get out of the class and receive a grade in English Composition. He
passed the first test.
He emulated brother Nichols by his kindness and by a firm stand for the
truth. Before writing an editorial on a topic critical of the views or
practice of some brother that he considered a departure from the truth,
he would call the assumed guilty party to get the real facts and to urge
repentance first if necessary. In late August of 1999, he called me for
more information about a matter concerning which I had a little
firsthand knowledge. I explained what I knew and Bobby did not write
about the matter. He called two elders before writing his October, 1999
editorial, urging them not to participate in an interdenominational
service. He failed, but one could tell his heart was breaking for having
felt the necessity of showing their action would hurt the church.
I read Bobby's editorials in Vigil carefully each month and have
saved many of them. He had an analytical mind that could reduce a
problem to a simple form and show the folly of erroneous reasoning. I
have no doubt brother Gus was and is proud of his protégé.
When one lives and talks daily with another person you get to know him
quite well. I came to see Bobby as a man in whom was no guile. He
convinced me to walk a straighter line than I had thought necessary and
helped me to dedicate my life to a study of the Bible and to its
proclamation. Years must pass and nostalgia take over before each of us
can really grasp how much we are indebted to another person. —Martel Pace |
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God looks for men who "stand in the gap before me" (Ezekiel 22:30). Bobby Duncan was one on whom God could depend, even if he had to stand alone:
He stood for Truth, and opposed error, yet he did
so without becoming mean-spirited, hateful, or radical. His life was the
epitome of balance, and our lives are richer by far for having known and
loved him (Bert Thompson, December 6, 1999).
During the "three days and nights" (Matthew 12:40), April 7-9,
A.D. 30, that Jesus' body lay in Joseph's tomb (Matthew 27:57-60), his
spirit was not in "the heaven of heavens" (Deuteronomy 10:14),
the "dwelling place" of God (I Kings 8:30), but in a place called
"Paradise" (Luke 23:43). Forty days (Acts 1:3) after his body was
raised, his spirit went, on May 18, "into heaven itself'"(Hebrews
9:24), where now he is preparing "a place" for Bobby in his
"Father's house" (John 14:2).
In the meantime, I believe Bobby's spirit is in Paradise, where he
"has entered into his rest ... from his works, as God did from
his" (Hebrews 4:10). I believe that Paradise, the intermediate
resting place for the redeemed, is also called "the third heaven"
(II Corinthians 12:2). There Bobby is happily awaiting his entrance into
the "Father's house" on "the day of judgment" (Matthew
10:15). I believe that the intermediate resting place is also called "Abraham's bosom," described as a place where Lazarus "was comforted" (Luke 16:22,25). Since wicked people, in their intermediate place of torment called "Hades" (Luke 16:23), know what is going on back on this earth (Luke 16:28), I believe that Bobby, and all "the spirits of just men" (Hebrews 12:23) in Paradise, know what is going on back on this earth. Consequently, I believe that Bobby is happy and smiling today as he sees that Lois, Jill, Tim and their families are continuing in the faith "grounded and settled and unmoved from the hope of the gospel" (Colossians 1:23), and that the Adamsville congregation i9 doing the same! Bobby's life and teaching will live on, for he paid close attention to Paul's words to Timothy:
Pay constant attention to yourself, and to the teaching; continue in
them, for by doing this, you will save both yourself and the ones who
hear you (I Timothy 4:16). —Hugo McCord |
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Bobby was the youngest child of John and Mattie Duncan. He was named
after two favorite uncles on each side of the family who had met
untimely accidental deaths just before he was born. Bobby was blessed
with loving parents and family that often extended beyond the family to
friends and even strangers who needed their support.
Bobby's mother was baptized in 1928, several years before he was born.
She struggled in her faithfulness to the church with small children and
her husband who had not as yet obeyed the gospel. When Bobby was eleven
years old, brother Joe S. Hyde was preaching in Jacksonville and would
often visit the Duncan home. Brother Hyde's friendship, compassion and
teaching was instrumental first in converting my mother and father and
my aunt Johnnia. Shortly thereafter Bobby was baptized. Later that year
Bobby's father, John Duncan was baptized. Bobby's heart was set
immediately on someday preaching the gospel.
Bobby was always outstanding in character. What he chose to do, he chose
to always do well. His craft in design of model airplanes was always
with patience and skill. He played trumpet in the high school band and
was in the first chair. His friends were good friends, both moral and
true. He encouraged the very best in them.
He wanted to go to Freed-Hardeman (College) University, because the
school was known for the quality preachers of the brotherhood. He roomed
with Martel Pace there. They became friends for life.
After returning home, he went to school at Jacksonville State and
through the help of Ronny Johnson he began preaching each Sunday at
Crestview in Boaz, Alabama. It was during this time he married the
lovely Lois Ann Elliott. Bobby worked as a painter for Jacksonville
State in the summer and continued to preach while Lois Ann was In
school.
Franklin Camp was having a preachers' class at East Gadsden. This
provided opportunity for daddy and Bob to study with brother
Camp. A lasting friendship and the greatest
respect was shared as brother Camp taught and Bobby studied. Brother
Camp recommended Bobby to the church at
Munford.
Munford was the largest congregation at Talladega County. It was
country, but it was strong. Many of the finest gospel preachers had
worked there. Bobby challenged the youth and many of them are leaders in
the church today. The Munford church allowed Bobby to grow in radio and
evangelistic meetings. His move to Adamsville was met with the conflicts
of the cooperation issues of the fifties. His longevity with the
Adamsville church has much to do with both Bobby' and the leaderships'
constant support of each other.
Our family has always loved to sing, and Bobby was always a part of
that. It did not matter which part you wanted him to sing, but he
insisted that the music was right and the words were true. Uncle Bob has been that source of strength to so many of us who preach. He has often shared a sermon. He was always generous in his compliments of our work. He differed kindly with us and taught us better the way.
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Months ago, when contacted by
brother Leon Jackson, an elder at Adamsville, concerning possibly
publishing the VIGIL, I responded with "We would be
honored to be a part of this good work." The response was due
largely to the respect and esteem with which we
held our friend and brother,
Bobby Duncan. Though many of us did not have the privilege of working
with the editor daily, we greatly appreciated his faithful and
consistent work through the years. Like Abel of long ago, our dear friend has departed from this life, but "he being dead yet speaketh" (Heb. 11:4). He lives in the lives of countless thousands who sat at his feet as he taught the unsearchable riches of God. —Paul
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In the early 1980's it was my privilege to work with Bobby Duncan as an
associate minister of the Sixth Avenue Church of Christ in Jasper,
Alabama. Bobby, at that time, was the preacher for the Sixth Avenue
church, having followed Gus Nichols as the
local minister.
Many wonderful things could be said about Bobby. He was a great
preacher, who knew the Bible and preached it. He was a great Bible class
teacher. He was a great writer serving for many years as editor for the
Words of Truth at Sixth Avenue and then the VIGIL at
Adamsville. In addition to serving as editor, he wrote articles for many
other fine publications. He preached in many Gospel meetings throughout
the years doing much good for the cause of Christ. Also, he spoke on
many brotherhood lectureships during his preaching life. He was in great
demand throughout our wonderful brotherhood both as a speaker and a
writer.
But you do not know someone well unless you work side by side with them.
It is then you really get to know that person on a day to day basis. You
observe how he handles situations and circumstances and how he deals
with people, etc. Ron Harper, another coworker with Bobby before my
time, and I discussed this fact at Bobby's funeral. Ron and I, as well
as others, have had the unique privilege of knowing Bobby Duncan up
close in a very personal way. As Ron said, "unless you worked with
Bobby you couldn't fully appreciate what a wonderful man he was."
He is right and what I would like to do in this brief eulogy is to
mention a few things I observed and learned working with Bobby. The list
is not all inclusive by any means, but these are some of the lessons
that help me even today. First, Bobby tried to be fair. He truly strove
to follow the Lord in not showing respect of persons. Bobby was
interested in dealing with principles, not personalities. It did not
matter if a person was very influential or not, wealthy or poor, he
tried to treat everyone fairly, dealing with the principles involved. We
can all learn from that lesson. Second, Bobby tried to be consistent. As
he dealt with issues and people, I learned the importance of
consistency. I would witness many times someone of a radical mind set"
challenging something Bobby wrote or published in Words of Truth. I
would observe how Bobby would deal with the criticism and point out the
inconsistency of the position of his critic. He would be kind but firm
in his efforts to be consistent. Third, Bobby tried to be Biblical.
During the Restoration Movement the plea was "In matters of faith,
unity; in matters of opinion, liberty; in all things, love." This
Biblical principle meant something to Bobby. When it came to a "thus
saith the Lord," he stood foursquare. Nevertheless, I have seen him
disagree over matters of opinion, but would not allow that to cause
disruption in the church. He was mature enough and man enough that he
did not have to have his way all the time. He loved the unity of the
church over his own will. That to me is the mark of a great man. It is a
lesson we can all learn from. Fourth, Bobby tried to be patient with
people, especially with young preachers. He was always available if you
wanted to talk. His example was one worthy of imitation. He has been
helpful to many preachers, but more so, I believe, to young men who are
just starting out. All those preachers who have worked with Bobby know
what I am talking about. He was a friend and example to young preachers.
I could not think of anyone I would have rather worked with as a young
preacher than Bobby. Fifth, Bobby loved his family. Working with him one
could see the love he had for his wife and children. His work was
important, but so was his family. Preachers can learn from Bobby in this
matter. Bobby Duncan was a great man of God. He was balanced in his preaching and in his life. I count it a rare privilege being able to work with such a man, especially as a young and green beginning preacher. The memories I have of Bobby and the lessons I learned from him will be with me for the rest of my life. I thank God for the opportunity to work with Bobby Duncan and to know him in a very personal way. Only those who worked with Bobby can truly understand the greatness of his service for the cause of Christ. I count myself as one of the fortunate ones because, for a period of time, I was able to work with Bobby Duncan, a great co-worker.
—Russ Crosswhite Fulton Church of Christ P.O. Box 251 Fulton, MS
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It was my privilege to have worked with Bob Duncan at the Adamsville
congregation for about one month under ten years, from 1985 to 1995. Of
those years, I have many fond memories both of the congregation at
Adamsville and the man Bob Duncan. I say that Bob was astounding in
many, many ways. Perhaps preachers who read this will attest to the
truth of the statement that a preacher must be very good at a number of
things to be a good preacher. That is what Bob was—a
man good at a number of things that go together to make a good preacher.
Bob had a great memory. He knew people by face and name, from far and
wide. This was due in large part to his being called upon to answer a
difficult problem some preacher or elder had, or from a meeting he had
held, or some such development of acquaintance. Bob remembered very
specific things about what brethren taught or preached and when and
where they stated or wrote their position. He also remembered
exceedingly well the Bible, and books he had imbibed about the Bible.
This memory proved especially helpful in lessons and in writing articles
or preaching sermons to address and answer false doctrines. I appreciate
many times when we would sit together and talk about some
doctrine, and he would share an experience, or produce from a file some
printed matter touching the issue. Then we would discuss passages and
arguments about the Bible truth with reference to the matter. His
excellent memory which he utilized to the fullest in his ministry made
him uncommonly effective as a preacher and writer. Further, his memory
was greatly illustrated in his quoting verbatim from the KJV chapter
after chapter from the Bible in sermons, such as all of Acts 2 in some
sermons, perhaps Acts 8, or 10, and numbers of other such passages. In
one sermon at Adamsville, Bob quoted the genealogy of Matthew 1. In his
lesson he emphasized from it that all Scripture is important, that all
people are important, and several other points. In another sermon he
quoted the book of Jude. One who memorizes the genealogy of Christ and
the book of Jude loves the Bible! If you don't believe it, read them
again.
Bob was a strong man. By this I mean not only that he was energetic and
active physically, but he was strong of character, bearing,
presentation, and will. He had tremendous courage. He knew what he
believed and went to the very heart of the issue and stuck with it to
drive home his point. His strength and courage was based on the Bible
which he loved, studied thoroughly, vigorously defended, and meditated
upon daily. Bob showed his courage in editing this magazine VIGIL, which
he began May 14, 1973. When we say Bob Duncan was courageous, we do not
mean he was foolhardy. In his VIGIL articles, and indeed the
articles contributed to it which he edited, Bob was very careful to
print only the truth about people who held false positions, and that
which could be documented. There was adequate material presenting false
teachings to discuss them without fabricating material (a lesson many
writers should learn today). Our work was as much documentation as
discussion. It is half the work! He realized how truth can suffer when
false charges are made. Therefore half-truths, innuendo, hearsay, etc.,
were not discussed in VIGIL. He stated clearly what people
actually believed and then dealt with it powerfully showing the
fallacies of falsehood from God's Word. Hence the power of the magazine
you are reading. Bob's articles were powerful, biblical, and logical,
just as were his sermons. It is uncommon for a good speaker to be a good
writer, but Bob was both.
Again, with respect to his courage. I saw Bob stand before a Jefferson
county board and tell why a liquor license should not be issued, even
with the cafe's owners present. It was powerful. I watched Bob's courage
when he and Don McWhorter debated doctors of religion on television
about baptism and truth triumphed. If Bob ever experienced nervousness
before a pulpit presentation, he did not show it. Sitting at his desk in
my presence, he frequently discussed the Bible on the phone with the
greatest minds in our brotherhood with courage, ability, and conviction.
And they called him as often as he called them. He met brethren with
whom he disagreed, and would not back down. Make no mistake, he was
gentlemanly in such encounters, but the main issue was to drive home the
Bible, and to abide by its principles. I would like to share one further
note of a personal nature on his courage. I remember one time when we
were coming back from the hospital through a rough part of town. For
some reason, a driver became irritated at us and honked at us, trying to
intimidate us. Bob was driving and didn't respond to the man, but told
me, "I wonder what he would do ifhe knew both of us weighed over 200
pounds?" When Bob said that, it made me wonder myself what the man
would have done.
Bob Duncan has preached some of the finest sermons I have ever heard in
all my life. One sermon titled, "The States OfMan" was an
absolute masterpiece. Indeed, all his meeting sermons were almost
awe-inspiring. Practically every congregation who ever had Bob for a
meeting asked him back. The lessons were tremendously biblical and deep,
but at the same time clear, concise, logical, and forcEful. Their
construction was superb, and their truth undeniable. He used
illustrations sparingly and when they appeared they fit perfectly. He
had good grammar, a strong voice, and an enthusiastic delivery. Words
flowed smoothly and the path from the mind to the tongue was
uninterrupted. His regular sermons were likewise of high quality. If
called upon to speak regarding a particular matter at a given place, one
could rest assured Bob would deliver what seemed to be the best sermon
one had ever heard on that subject. His philosophy in preaching was to
make his lessons peculiar to the Lord's church. He said preaching should
be distinctive "in doctrine." We might say he thought people
ought to know one's religion after he finished a sermon even if they
hadn't known before he started the lesson.
In visitation and personal work, Bob excelled. He visited hospitals all
over Birmingham and beyond regularly. If the illness were sudden, Bob
visited with no regard for the time of day or night. In personal work,
he studied with a great number of people in their homes, in his office,
and over the phone. Many were led to obey the Gospel as a result of his
personal work efforts.
Perhaps more should be said with reference to Bob's love for the truth
and his love for the Bible. He has an intense and immense love for all
that had to do with the Bible, preaching, and doing the work of an
evangelist. He had a vast library which he hungrily studied. Often, I
have seen him bounce out of his office tickled that at last he had
completed a manuscript for a lecture book, or Spiritual Sword, or some
other important effort. He would invite me -to read it, which I would
gladly do. He loved both the challenge and the actual participation in
such important work. He loved to attend the Freed-Hardeman Lectures,
area meetings, and singings. This was his life.
Bob loved to sing. He and I on a number of occasions were involved in
both the speaking and the singing at the same funeral. Sometimes I would
have the obituary and remarks, and he the main sermon, and interspersed,
we would sing with two others in a quartet. Often we would sing with
Bob's brother and nephew: Clifford and Eddie Smith in Bob's office when
they would drop by. Bob sang whenever and wherever opportunity arose,
being both a good song leader and a good quartet singer. His family all
likewise love,d to sing, and were good singers.
Bob Duncan and I were personal friends. I know we loved each other, for
we told each other that and tried to show it. I learned a great number
of things from Bob. I feel sure I will always keep an empty spot because
of his passing. Bob and I did not speak every day, or every week since I
left Adamsville for other work" but it was good to know that he was
there, for reference. Just as one might reach to get his favorite
reference book when the need arose, so it was good to have Bob available
for reference. But who could think of losing that important reference?
What a loss! But more than a reference, it is difficult to lose a close
friend. So much more could be said, but perhaps the words of the poem by
Carl Bates best describes Robert B. Duncan:
The Bible Man
He stands behind the sacred desk
Upon the Scriptures, right, and truth,
He loves the grand old Book divine,
Let skeptics doubt, and heathen rage,
When worlds shall end, and stars shall fall,
—Tim Rice ADAMSVILLE CHURCH OF CHRIST 4207 Adamsville Parkway
Adamsville, AL 35005 (205) 674-5659
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On my dresser, there's a copy of The Spiritual Sword, opened to an
article written by Bobby Duncan. Ironically, I began reading from Bobby
last Friday night only to learn that he died early the next day.
Bobby was a friend to many, a confidant and counselor to young
preachers, a diligent student of God's word, an exceptional author and a
great gospel preacher. One third of the hundreds present for his funeral
were preachers, paying respect to a good man's scholarship and to his
sweet spirit.
Reflecting on Bobby's life and death, four things come to mind.
1. Life is fragile. I remember Bobby calling years ago. He was battling
a disease of his own at the time, but he still made a long distance
phone call to inquire of my father's cancer surgery. When he learned of
the surgery's success, he wept. Of recent, Bobby had been valiantly
fighting another form of the disease he conquered years ago. This time,
it was too formidable of a foe. Indeed, "Man...cometh forth like a
flower and is cut down" (Job 14:12).
2. Death is sure. Too often, the phone rings with the news of a dear
one's passing. I'm tired of it. It hurts. But, nothing can be done about
it. You see, "our days upon the earth are a shadow" (Job 8:9).
3. Grief is difficult. I took the trash out after returning from Bobby's
funeral. I thought of Lois, his widow. She'll have to attend to chores
like that by herself, new. Death gives birth to tears, doesn't it (John
20:11)? Maybe that's why it is "the king of terrors" (Job 18:14).
4. Hope is the cure. I wish you could have sat with me at the funeral.
Congregational singing blended into a symphony of joy. There was a
celebration of life, supported by an obedient faith in Jesus and the
hope of a beautiful home in heaven. You see, hope helps us cope (I
Thess. 4:13).
Life is fragile; death is sure. Grief is difficult; hope's the cure
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| Directions To The Grave Of Robert B. Duncan | |
| Bobby Duncan was laid to rest in the Adamsville, Alabama in the Crestview Memorial Gardens. From Birmingham, take I-20 to the Arkadelphia Exit, Hwy. 78 (This is the I-22 Corridor) and head toward Jasper. Just north of Birmingham is the community of Adamsville. The church of Christ at Adamsville is located on the highway. Go a few miles north of Adamsville and the Crestview Funeral Home and Cemetery is on the right. Head into the cemetery to the right of the funeral home. Go up the hill until it dead end. Turn left and make you way around the section which is on your right. Head to the far side of the section from where you entered, and begin looking to the right for a sidewalk head toward a statute of Jesus. Go to the second granite seat on the right. On the seat will be the words, "Bobby Duncan: A Servant Of God." Just in from this seat is the grave of R.B. Duncan. | |
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Crestview Memorial Gardens And Funeral Home Bobby Duncan - A Servant Of God In Loving Memory - Lois Duncan - (Script On Bench In Distance) Robert B. 1934-1999 Lois E. (1936- DUNCAN Robert B. 1934-1999 |
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