CHAPTER
5
WHAT
FRIENDS HAVE SAID ABOUT BROTHER HOLDER
Many comments have been
made about the character and preaching of Brother Holder. It is not
possible to list all of them, but these are a representative sampling.
From
Jericho, near McMinnville, come these statements from various friends.
"Charles
Holder, Sr., is the most Christ-like person that many of our people have
ever known. Walk down our narrow valleys, journey across these mountain
tops, climb up and down their slopes and talk to the people of God and
this is the answer you will find upon a multitude of lips, 'Yes, I have
known him a long time'. People have been known to say they have the
strange feeling that they are looking into the face of Divinity when they
behold his rugged, peaceful, and kind face. They knew, of course that he
lived in mortal form, but what they were seeing was the transformed
individual, transformed by the renewing of his mind, in the image of Him
who created him; transformed by a continual looking into the perfect law
of liberty; transformed by truth, the love of it and continual obedience
to it until his life and character was radiant with its beauty.... To us
he is our own personal example of the apostle Paul in matters of
evangelism, perseverance, frugal living, steadfastness, and the giving of
himself. We do not expect to see his like again."
Howard
Hembree, Quebec, Tennessee.
"His
work resembled the apostle Paul's."
C.
J. Wheeler, Pikeville, Tennessee.
"I
think I have never heard his equal these many years. I am thankful I was
privileged to know him and learn from his lips the Holy Scriptures. He was
indeed a prince among men."
Mrs.
T. B. Geer, Cowan, Tennessee.
"I
feel about him like Christ said about the woman, 'He hath done what he
could'."
Annie
W. Arnold, Stevenson, Alabama.
"Brother
Holder will long be remembered by every one who had the privilege of
knowing him."
Smith
M. Lively, McMinnville, Tennessee.
"To
me Brother Holder was 'The salt of the earth'."
Henry
K. Allan, Fairbanks, Alaska.
"He
was always ready and willing to go where the gospel was needed most, and
the brethren were the fewest and weakest, never counting the cost."
Mrs.
Ernest J. Slatton, Tampa, Florida.
"It
was always such a blessing to have him in our home. He was loved dearly by
all."
The
R. C. Carpenters, Chattanooga, Tennessee
"It
would be impossible to express what Brother Holder has meant to us. It was
the souls of men he had at heart, not the dollar."
Members,
Church of Christ, Jenny's Chapel, By A. R. Johnston.
"Without
his love for us, his great faith and encouragement, we would not have been
as faithful as we are."
Loyd
M. Collins, Wood's Cove Church, Scottsboro, Alabama.
"As
a child, when we would visit them all I can remember is seeing him sitting
on the porch reading his Bible. He was such a good man."
A
niece, Mrs. C. C. Dodson, McMinnville, Tennessee
"I
believe Brother Holder was the most righteous man I ever knew, and I feel
sure he is enjoying the reward of the righteous."
Ronald
R. Morgan, Lafayette, Ga.
Brother
Jack Withelm, Florence, Alabama wishes to include a few words from a
letter Brother Holder sent to him. He said they express so accurately the
characteristics of Brother Holder.
"For
more than 60 years I have worked where there were few Christians, where
the going was slow and hard and where there was little pay. But God and
His church have never failed me and I am truly thankful. I am well and my
son James Elam is preaching nearly every Lord's Day, and I am happy
because of this over other things."
Brother
Roy Burgess, Taylor, Michigan, says one outstanding remark of Brother
Holder had encouraged him much. "I have been stumbling and blundering
for nearly fifty years, and with the help of God, I intend to keep on
going in spite of the stumbling and blundering. It would be a disaster to
give up the Lord because of mistakes we make trying to serve him."
These
are just a few of the many friends who could bear the same kind of
testimony. Brother Holder treasured his friends very highly; he told me
one time that he was a millionaire because he had a million friends.
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CHAPTER
6
"BROTHER
HOLDER AS I KNEW HIM"
By Cecil D. Williams
To write of all my
remembered experiences with Brother Holder, and in all matters where he
has touched my life, I am confident it would appear to be a story of my
own Christian growth and development into a gospel preacher; for a record
of his life's practice does consist in details of reaching out of himself
and into the lives of others.
He was known, loved,
thought of and addressed as "Brother Holder" by saint and
sinner. Even his wife addressed him as "Brother Holder" in the
presence of others, always, out of profound respect (I Pet. 3:1-6).
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FAITH IN THE POWER OF THE
PRINTED PAGE
One
could not think of brother Holder without a mental picture of himself
receiving something in good gospel literature. It was as common as was his
full life of oral preaching to give away thousands upon thousands of
tracts, encouraging many to subscribe to some religious paper such as the
Gospel Advocate. You could always find him with a new list of subscribers
and could get in on the club price. I do not remember participating with
him in a meeting when announcement was not made of such papers, and tracts
were always offered free.
His
first real impact upon me, in forming a conviction and effecting a
decision, was through a tract he gave me. It was during his regular
appointments at Bridgeport church, when following the sermon, he as usual
made mention of tracts which were free for the taking. The tract on that
occasion was titled, "Christians and Tobacco." After reading it,
I purposed at that moment to exchange the tobacco habit for something of
greater value. I have since had twenty-seven years to rejoice in that
decision.
He
believed in the power of the printed page and entertained confidence that
fruit would be borne by placing good reading in the hands of the people. I
suppose there are none of the well-known tracts in the brotherhood but
what have been purchased and distributed by him in the hundreds and
thousands, in addition to his writing many of his own arrangements and
having them printed and distributed into the tens of thousands.
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ROUGH STONES FOR POLISHING
There
is no way to really know how many young men he influenced to preach. I am
persuaded that many, along with myself, attributed to him the credit in
being responsible for whatever good we may be able to do, in the way that
we attribute to God's servants these things. Brother Holder exercised
great interest and patience in convincing another that he too, can be used
of the Lord. To another, he may be one without seeming potential, but to
Brother Holder, one such was fit material for the Lord-a stone in the
rough for polishing-with which to exercise endless patience in turning his
energies into doing good while on earth, and in making ready for heaven.
He was convincing in his expression of confidence, that, if one prepares
himself for a work, the Lord will open the opportunity for service first
the preparation, then the Lord will see to it that the field is opened.
I
could wish that all young boys believe early, and know that this principle
has been tried and verified again and again in many delightful ways,
especially in the great work of gospel preaching.
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SOME PREACHING
CHARACTERISTICS
Brother
Holder believed the word of God for what it said. His life plan of
preaching permitted him to hear very little preaching from others, but
when he heard another preach in earnest fashion, unassuming, unafraid,
with more regard for what God would say than what man may think, he would
likely say, "He doesn't have any better sense than to preach the
truth," always meaning that such a one would be faithful to the word,
not hesitating to make the application fearlessly and the truth plain.
I
have assisted him in meetings when, each night, he would use a different
passage for a text, but each featuring some great characteristic of God's
word, using the entire meeting in exalting the value of taking God at His
word, doing what He commands, and trusting God for the promises made.
One
favorite and all-convincing arrangement which he would develop
point-by-point is worthy of every generation. It is as follows:,
"The
word of God endureth forever." (Isa. 40:8)
"The
Kingdom of God shall stand forever." (Dan. 2:44)
"He
that doeth the will of God abideth forever." (I Jno. 2:17)
He
believed the one as strongly as he believed the other. He believed the
scriptures furnished the man of God unto every good work. He wasted no
time or influence in the practice of politics, held membership in no
organization on earth but the blood-bought church of the Lord, and taught
others that we can be `complete in Christ.'
One
of the most impressive statements he ever made to me on the subject of
preaching was, in exact quotation: "Why Cecil, it does no more good
to preach to some folks than pouring cold water on a duck's back, but the
Lord said preach." I know this is the courage he would take when
working with a "hard place" where seeming little could be
accomplished.
Toward
every one he ever met and talked to, he was the very personification of
kindness and Christian charity, and whoever formed his "inner
circle" could see his love and concern for him beaming through. But
when in the pulpit, he knew "no one after the flesh." This was
his conviction and consistent practice.
I
remember the following incident which he related to me and which
illustrates and may account for some of his methods in handling an
audience. In his young days he conducted a meeting in which he
"scorched their hides good", more and more severely toward the
last of the meeting. An elderly gentleman, not even a Christian, said,
"Well, I enjoyed your meeting, but if I were a preacher I would not
do as you have." Brother Holder thought, "Who are you to know so
much about what you would do," then asked, "well, how would you
do it?" The old man continued: "I would come into a place for my
first meeting, preach clearly what I believed, and toward the last I would
ease up on them so I would get to come back. If I could not return, all my
opportunities for helping them would be gone." This to Brother Holder
sounded like wise advice for many conditions. His usual practice would be
to "lay it on good and proper" when he knew an existing
situation wrong, but then, he would not say anything more about that
particular thing for a while, giving them a chance to "cool off"
some. By then he could approach it from another angle and snatch some from
the burning.
When,
during "World War II," convictions were likely sacrificed by
many at bargain-counter prices, emotions were high strung and it was so
easy to lose one's sense of distinction between right and wrong, faith and
opinion, and completely lose one's footing, I asked brother Holder what he
regarded as the most serious need, and he said in substance, "To keep
before the Church the fact of the 'One Body' and hold as many of them
faithful as possible."
I
think I could write many paragraphs telling of many profitable incidents.
The trips with him to and from meetings were never dull. He could talk
about more profitable things and relate them in application to our needs
than anyone I've ever seen. Passage after passage of the sacred scriptures
were discussed to my delight and edification. Many of my most sacred
"holdings" were formed during these times which have served to
guide me safely through many problems.
On
one occasion, when he had preached a stirring and frightful sermon on some
very vital subject, a listener, after the service had closed, approached
him with, "Well, you preached me to hell today." To this Brother
Holder replied with the following provocative question: "You are not
there yet, are you?"
No one came closer than he
in preaching the gospel in the language of the gospel writings. His
practice was to organize an arrangement of passages and illustrations so
as to let God's word speak with all authority on any given subject. I do
not know how much of the Bible he could recite from memory, but no one who
ever heard him preach was ever left with any doubt that he had his heart
stored with the greater part of it. One of the most impressive sermons
which he used again and again over the years was outlined and preached as
expressed in Deut. 5:29:
"Oh
that there were such a heart in them,
a.
that they would fear me
b.
and keep all my commandments
c.
always, that it may be well with them and
their
children forever."
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A LOOK AT HIS PERSONALITY
Brother
Holder was, as near as I could see, wholly unselfish. He did not withhold
praise when he had opportunity to commend one for a good work. He would
praise the good points of his critics. When he was criticized he would
attribute the most charitable motive possible to it, and he would say to
those closest to him, "No one can hurt you but yourself." He
would commit himself to the Lord in well doing, believing the very thing
the Lord wanted done would be done in the Lord's own way and time. This,
all knew, was his exceptionally strong confidence in the
"providential care" of God. He had open and standing invitations
to preach at some places as long as he lived. In some instances where
someone had said years before, "as long as I have anything to do with
it, he shall not preach in this place." Brother Holder believed
confidentially that God will honor your work.
It
was a source of joy to him just to believe he could befriend a person. On
one occasion he gave me a nice big fat hen from his fine flock. When I
suggested he shouldn't do it, he said, "The Lord is not going to let
me suffer in doing something for you, do you believe that?"
When
he became unable to preach from the pulpit any more, he began thinking of
what he could be good for. He came up with an answer to himself,
"why, I can still write, mail tracts and ask people to attend church;
my wife needs me and I can look after her."
His
mental powers were marvelously preserved to the very last. He never quit
reading the Bible and when bedfast, having it read to him. He had, all
during the years, kept himself busy reading good books and engaging in a
daily study of the Bible, always calling attention to some point which he
wondered why he had not noticed before. This but points up the manner in
which he always eagerly studied, the refreshing state of his mind in
discussing the word of God, and the amazement with which he looked upon
it.
And
now, with all the fruit he bore for Christ while he was with us and which
has been placed to his account, there is still more to come, for being
dead, yet he speaks through fruit bearing of others who love life and see
good days because Brother Holder lived. He rejoiced in the thought that
one day he could see others `there' because he was here. With a host of
others, James Elam, his youngest son in the flesh, rises up to call him
blessed in preaching the glorious gospel of the Son of God.
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CHAPTER
7
THE GROWTH OF THE CHURCH OF CHRIST IN THE
SEQUATCHIE VALLEY
Even
though the greater part of Brother Holder's work was done in the
Sequatchie Valley, he did much preaching in the surrounding areas. The
church's growth can best be seen after considering the few, scattered
churches at the beginning of the century. According to Brother Holder, in
1900 there were four churches in McMinn County, Tennessee, and in 1903
there were only two churches in Chattanooga. Of the mere 16 in East
Tennessee, only three small churches - Calhoun, Tennessee, Ooltewah,
Tennessee, and Cowart Street in Chattanooga-owned buildings. There were
only seven churches in the Sequatchie Valley, and in 1900 Harlan was the
only church between Chattanooga and Rome, Georgia.
In
those days most churches began meeting in old stone buildings or under a
tent. The gospel was not always favorably received in such places, neither
was the preacher. When Brother Holder first began preaching in LaFayette,
Georgia, during one meeting he was shot at and finally run out of the
school house. The meeting place was then moved to the court house, and
finally two brethren rented a lot, bought a tent and put it up where they
met for the next six months.
In
Summerville, Georgia, one preacher was actually hit by a rock. "They
were rough on all Church of Christ preachers in those days,"
commented Brother Holder.
In
contrast today there are churches in nearly every town or community in
southern Tennessee, northeast Alabama and northwest Georgia. And from
Pikeville to Fort Payne, Alabama, it would be hard to find a Church of
Christ in which at least one person had not known and been influenced by
Brother Holder. Most of the churches in this area that were not begun by
himself had their beginnings in people to whom he had preached in other
places. Only eternity can reveal the good accomplished by his efforts.
His
enthusiasm for his message is exemplified during his first meeting at
Pikeville when he walked to the meeting house and sighted about 50 boys
standing under a tree. He talked to them and invited them in. About half
of them accepted the invitation, but for the most part paid little
attention to the service. Afterwards he said he might just as well go home
since he wasn't doing any good, One of the boys said, "How do you
know?" He decided to stay on to see, and at the close of the meeting
18 adults had been baptized. Considering one convert, a man past 70, he
said the man might never have become a Christian had he left.
Just
as there can be no definite count of the people influenced by Brother
Holder, it would be impossible to name all of the churches he actually
started or helped start. However, I have received definite information
regarding the following congregations: in Tennessee, Pikeville, Sale Creek
and Graysville; in Alabama, Fort Payne, Stevenson, Jenny's Chapel, Wood's
Cove, Lyon's Chapel and Smith's Chapel; and in Georgia, LaFayette and two
churches in Summerville. In 1936 Brother Holder published and distributed
a tract which is actually a report of his own work aimed to stir up people
to be more missionary minded. The following is taken from that tract:
"THE
POOR HAVE THE GOSPEL PREACHED TO THEM." For thirty years I have
preached the gospel in twelve counties in East Tennessee, four in
Northeast Alabama, and four in Northwest Georgia, in an effort to
establish and build up New Testament churches. More than thirty
congregations have been established, and several young men have been
influenced to preach the Gospel. There are yet many places in these twenty
counties where the gospel has not been preached. On Lookout Mountain, in
North Georgia, and North Alabama, there is only one small congregation of
eight members meeting in a private home. On Sand Mountain there are
fifteen good community centers with good schools and only one congregation
of the church. On Gunter's Mountain there are several good communities
with only two congregations. At Grant, on Gunter's Mountain, is one of the
finest schools in North Alabama with an enrollment of nearly five hundred
young people. We have a few members there, with a house of worship not yet
paid for and not yet painted. On Walden's Ridge, a part of the Cumberland
Mountain, in Tennessee, from Crossville to near Chattanooga, a distance of
seventy-five miles, there is a congregation. All this vast mission field
is in these twenty counties.
All
along I have refused calls from other sections and other States. I have
never given all my time to one congregation, and have never asked a strong
congregation to give me work. I have never refused to go to any place in
these twenty counties where it was possible for me to go.
"I
have shown you all things, how that so laboring ye ought to support the
weak, and to remember the words of the Lord Jesus how he said, It is more
blessed to give than to receive."
The
past three years I have preached at SEVENTEEN places where a few disciples
meet regularly for worship in private homes, school houses and old store
buildings. I have preached at FIVE places where a few disciples have
houses of worship, not finished, not painted and four of them not paid
for. All these TWENTY-TWO places are in good towns and community centers
and I believe good congregations can be built up at all of these places.
But it will take time and work, and only one of these twenty-two places is
able to support a meeting as it should be. The harvest is great indeed.
"Lift up your eyes, and look on the field," and remember the
command is: "Go into all the world and preach the gospel to every
creature." I am going in all kinds of weather, into all kinds of
places, into all kinds of homes, and among all kinds of peoples. I am
teaching publicly and from house to house, and giving away tracts and
leaflets, as I go, in an effort to save the lost, help the weak and build
up New Testament Churches.
Will
you not take MORE INTEREST in this work, PRAYING often for those who are
doing this work and for their families and will you not GIVE MORE to the
support of this work that souls, for whom Christ gave his life and shed
his blood, may hear the gospel and be saved? "BEAR YE ONE ANOTHER'S
BURDENS, AND SO FULFILL THE LAW OF CHRIST."
In
1931, I held fifteen meetings that paid me two hundred sixty-three dollars
and twenty-five cents. 1932 seventeen meetings paid me two hundred
thirteen dollars and forty cents. To date, July 7, this year I have held
seven meetings, which paid me forty-six dollars and I have eight or ten
more of the same kind to hold if possible. In 1931 and 1932 and to date
this year I gave away twelve thousand tracts and leaflets.
During
1936, I preached at ten places where a few disciples meet in private
homes, school houses, sectarian meeting houses, and one place is an
unfinished church building. I held 10 meetings during the year at these
places. Seven meetings gave me $65.60. THREE MEETINGS gave me NOTHING. I
plan to continue this work during 1937, the Lord willing. I think good
congregations can be built up at ALL these places BUT IT WILL TAKE
CONTINUAL HARD WORK FOR SOME TIME YET. There are many other places like
these ten places, and near them, I plan to go as soon as possible. John
4:34-36. Acts 20:17-35.
The
people at these places are our own people and the disciples at these
places, though they are few in number and perhaps weak, yet they are our
own brethren and sisters in Christ and they are entitled to all the
blessings and privileges of the Gospel and are entitled to Gospel
preaching the same as those who worship with strong Churches with good
houses of worship.
The
Government is spending BILLIONS to feed and clothe the bodies of our
people but is not spending and WILL NOT SPEND, A PENNY TO SAVE THE SOULS
OF PEOPLE.
The
American people spend annually for tobacco $60.00 per capita, they spend
$20.00 per capita for cold drinks and $10.00 per capita to attend shows.
THINK OF THAT! $90.00 for EVERY MAN, WOMAN and CHILD in this country.
$7,200,000,000 for tobacco, $2,400,000,000 for cold drinks and
$1,000,000,000 for movies. HOW MUCH DO WE SPEND TO SAVE THE LOST?
Christ
gave his life, body and blood for us. How much do we give to His cause and
to extend His Kingdom, II Cor. 5:14; I Peter 4:1-10; Heb. 6:10; Matt.
6:33; Phil. 3:7-14.
Christ
died for all and wants all saved. Rom. 1:16 and 8:9; Gal. 6:2-10; I Cor.
9:16-22.
CHARLES
HOLDER,
Bridgeport,
Alabama
December,
1936
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CHAPTER
8
LAST
YEARS AND FUNERAL
During Brother Holder's
last two years of life, he was not strong enough to preach regularly, but
when he was able, he usually attended services at Bridgeport or Rocky
Springs, and on a few occasions he spoke for a very brief time. However,
especially in 1960 there would be weeks at a time when his health did not
permit him even to leave the house.
In three ledgers he kept a
record of his sermons, including the date, place, scripture used and
visible results. He also recorded wedding ceremonies and funerals, but he
never listed a sermon subject. Checking his latest records, I found he
preached only 24 Sundays in 1959. On the last Sunday in August of that
year he went to Union Grove, near Cleveland, Tennessee, for a meeting. He
had thought his strength sufficient to empower him to preach in a week's
meeting, and he had already been able to preach in Bridgeport two Sundays
before. However, after his first sermon on Sunday at Union Grove, his
infirmities overcame him, and he asked the brethren to take him home.
That Sunday at Union Grove
was the last time he preached from the pulpit. His last eight day meeting,
however, was held at the East Chattanooga church in October, 1958, where
he had annually held meeting for several years. Here in 1959 several
Chattanooga preachers volunteered to preach one night each in a meeting if
the church would send the money ordinarily paid them to Brother Holder.
Brother Holder was my
personal friend for just over four years, and though I realize the
blessing I missed in not knowing him longer, these few years were a rich
experience. I do not know of a man more humble than he, nor of one more
dedicated to the Lord.
He was always willing for
the Lord's will to be done, but as the evening shadows began to fall on
his life, I could see in him the perplexity which faced Paul in his desire
to depart to be with the Lord and yet his desire to see the kingdom grow
and cover the earth. He frequently said that he would like to live and
preach until Christ returned, but in his last years his body was so tired
and worn that he really preferred to go on.
Still, many times he
stated, "I would like to live long enough to see a nice church
building and a strong congregation in New York City, one in Singapore, and
one in Hong Kong." He felt that each of these places were potential
radiating centers for the good news of Christ, and he was thankful for
this generation's opportunities and that he lived in the "golden age
of Christianity."
His fervent belief in
Romans 8:28 that "all things work together for good to them that love
the Lord . . . ," was only temptable when Charles' wife, Lena, passed
away and when his own wife became mentally incapable because of brain
deterioration. He prayed about these, but he still quoted Romans 8:28
along with Romans 8:18 and 14:8 and Psalm 17:15. He even quoted Psalm
17:15 in his sleep while he was in the hospital.
Brother Holder rejoiced at
the good work of the Herald of Truth, but he felt that the church itself
was only doing a small percentage of what it could accomplish if every
Christian would add just one more dollar to his monthly contributions. He
said that if Christians would only realize how much this small increase
could do, they could find ways to give it.
He never veered from his
own humble appreciation for the monetary support of some churches and
individuals who regularly thought of him when he was unable to preach from
the pulpit. He did not ask for this support or for personal aid at any
time during his life, because he believed the Lord would not forsake him
in supplying his needs. Perhaps the Lord chose these people because they
would give to Him through Brother Holder as they loved him and appreciated
the work he had done. Brother Holder too was appreciative for all things
as he showed in saying, "March 31, 1961, will be eight months, I have
been in bed most of the time. It has been sad, trying, and expensive, but
they have been the best days of my life. I think the Lord sent me to
school on the 23rd day of July, 1960, to help me learn the meaning of
Romans 5:15. I want to express thanks for the fact I believe God and His
people have supplied my every need. I can't think of a thing I needed that
I haven't received." For the many weeks Brother Holder was confined
to his home, Preston Cox, himself a gospel preacher, expressed his own
love and esteem for Brother Holder as he attended to his personal needs
and brought him the Lord's Supper and shared a short service with him on
Sunday afternoons.
During the time Brother
Holder was in North Jackson Hospital, near Bridgeport, he was thinking of
some good work he could do. He said he felt the Lord had a purpose in his
being there and he wished to take advantage of it. While he was lying
there in bed, he was constantly giving out tracts and talking about Christ
and the Bible to the nurses and other employees of the hospital.
His own children were no
less attentive to him than his host of friends, and his daughter Ray was
with him during his last conscious moments when he uttered, "For me
to live is Christ, to die is gain." (Philippians 1:21).
His grandson James was
sitting vigil with him on April 26, 1961, when his spirit finally departed
its earthly tabernacle. He had realized for several months that his
illness was terminal, and with his departure in mind, he planned his
funeral service. He selected the men he wanted to participate and named
the songs he wanted the congregation to sing led by Brother Earl Inglis.
He wanted Brother Cecil Williams to preach a lesson outlined in three main
points - (1) The Word of the Lord Abideth Forever, (2) The Kingdom of God
Standeth Forever and (3) He that doeth the Will of God Abideth Forever. He
chose Psalm 103 as the text to be read by this writer.
At his request, the only
flowers present were the pall on the casket. The beauty of the service
itself, the singing of more than 300 friends and the inspirational
message, was sufficient expression of love and respect for this man.
As his own last act of
"Giving", Brother Holder had had printed a tract for the express
occasion of this service. The subject was "Unity" - which he
particularly emphasized in his later years and seemed to desire above all
else.
In lieu of flowers he
preferred that donations be sent either to the Manhattan Church of Christ
in New York City or the Herald of Truth program in Abilene, Texas. For
these causes more than $400 was contributed by friends and congregations.
Brother Holder's body was
laid to rest in the Cumberland View Cemetery on U. S. Highway 41, just
north of South Pittsburg, Tennessee. It is in the beautiful Sequatchie
Valley which was dear to his heart from where his life and the influence
of his Christ like character will spread for many years to come.
The
words of a poet are fitting here -
Two
hands upon his breast,
His
labors all are done.
Two
tired feet crossed in rest,
His
earthly race is run.
A second funeral, less
than six months later, was planned by the children for their beloved
mother after she passed away on October 11, 1961. The service was as
nearly possible like Brother Holder's for she was beloved of him as his
faithful wife. Because of her mental condition, she was incapable of being
the companion to him during his declining years, but when he was in the
hospital she missed him and later gave evidence that she knew he was
forever gone from her. She grew more restless, and as she required more
constant care, James and his wife, Nell took care of her until she
departed from their home.
She had not been able to
communicate except for her clearly spoken "Daddy" for several
years, even though she sometimes seemed to make sense without really
knowing it. Brother Holder had shouldered, uncomplainingly, this burden,
but when her body was laid beside his in Cumberland View Cemetery, they
were both finally at rest from the encumbrance of the last years of their
life on this earth.
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CHAPTER
9
A
COMMAND AND A PRAYER
A
Sermon by Charles Holder, Sr.
I
trust that all of you are here to continue to study the Bible. This is the
last night of the meeting, and I can't understand how erring members of
the Church can hear these songs and listen to the prayers and lessons and
continue in sin. I can't understand that. I can't understand how
intelligent men and women can listen to the Gospel and listen to these
songs and these prayers and go on in sin and die in sin and spend eternity
in Hell. I can't understand it. I can't understand how intelligent men can
enjoy the blessings of Almighty God day after day and continue in
disobedience to his will and his way. I can't understand it. All we have
and are, he gave to us. All blessings come from him, and if you think
about it, it is ingratitude on your part when you fail to serve him.
Then
another thing, He promises you a hundred fold in this present world in
return for the service you render to Him, and in the world to come eternal
life. It is a great deal more serious than you think to be an erring
member of the church, because every erring member of the church causes
somebody else to be in error. They hinder other people and bring reproach
upon the church, and it is a serious thing-much more serious than most of
us think. I would to God I could persuade you tonight if you are an erring
member of the church to make up your mind like the prodigal boy to say,
"I will arise and go to my Father's house," confess your sins
and ask to be made a servant and then when you pray your sins will be
forgiven.
Some
who have children, I will warn you, you will answer for these children in
the judgement. You brought them into the world without their consent, and
you will answer for them in the judgement. You had better set the right
example before them. You had better exert the right influence over them,
and if you have not, confess and humbly pray God, and try to undo the
wrong that you have done. Try to redeem the time that you have wasted.
Those of you who never have been Christians, the Lord needs you, has a use
for you. He has work for you that no one else can do. He has a temporal
and eternal reward for you if you do the work. But the work must be done
in the church as a member of the church. The Lord doesn't bless anybody in
spiritual ways nor save anybody from sin until they enter into the church
he purchased with his blood. He doesn't reward anybody in heaven and with
eternal life for any good they do, except they do it in and through the
Church. I want to appeal to you to remember that.
I
want to talk tonight about a command the Savior gave and a prayer that he
uttered, and more depends upon the carrying out of this command and
helping answer this prayer than all else we do. Our relationship one to
another, the way we treat each other, has more influence in the world than
anything else. Preaching will have its effect if we live as we should. But
upon these two things Christ seems to understand that more depends than
all others put together. One command he gave, and one prayer he uttered.
Peter had that in mind when he said in I Peter 3:8-1 "Finally, be you
all of one mind, having compassion one with another, love the brethren, be
pitiful, be courteous not rendering evil for evil nor railing for railing
but contrariwise blessing." Then he said, "You that love life
and see good days (now listen, I have seen many a chap forget about that),
let him refrain his tongue from evil, (let's make a note of that), and his
lips that they speak no guile. Let him turn away from evil and do good.
Let him seek peace and ensue it. For the eyes of the Lord are over the
righteous and his ears are open to their prayers. But the face of the Lord
is against them that do evil."
When
you go home tonight, sit down and do not sleep until you have committed I
Peter 3:12 to memory, because unless you commit these to memory and get
them fixed in your heart, you just can't carry them out. Now then, I've
never stood in this pulpit when I was so anxious for this congregation to
carry out what I am trying to preach as I am tonight. Your salvation is at
stake. The salvation of others is at stake, and you and I cannot be saved
without obeying this commandment; that is, we can't be saved in heaven. We
can't be saved in heaven without doing our best to carry out this prayer.
Listen at the command. "A new commandment give I unto you (get it and
remember it) that you love one another as I have loved you. By this shall
all men know that you are my disciples in that you have love one for
another." How much are we to love each other? As he loved us! Why? So
all men can see that we are his disciples. Now the thing for you to do is
make a note of that. Ask yourself the question, "Do you love all
members of the body of Christ, as Christ loved you?" That's the way I
study the Bible. That's the only way to study the Bible. Apply it to
myself and then my friends, the prayer is, "Neither for these only do
I pray but for all them which have believed on me through their word that
all may be one as thou father art in me and I in thee that they all be one
in us, that the world may believe that thou hast sent me." We are the
only religious people in the world that preach that platform upon which
all men can unite and be one without giving up a single truth, sacrificing
a single principle or accepting a single error. The truth is that we do
not practice what we preach.
In
regard to all being one, let's study this question. In the fourteenth
chapter of Romans are some things I want to get before you. For instance,
he says here that, "He that is weak in the faith receive ye but not
to doubtful disputations." It's wrong to argue with brethren and
sisters who are weak in the faith, who do not know much, who do not have
much sense, who are weak. It's wrong. There it is; it's not what I think.
Him that is weak receive ye but not to doubtful disputations, and another
thing, who art thou that judgest another man's servant? Now let's stop and
ask ourselves, are we guilty of that? "Who art thou that judgest or
condemns another man's servant? To his own master he stands or falls. Yea,
he shall be holden up for God is able to make him stand. For none of us
lives unto himself and no man dieth to himself." The Lord only knows
how many people I have influenced either for good or bad. God only knows
how many people you are influencing, for good or bad. If we influence them
for good, it is well, but if for bad, woe unto the world because of
occasions of stumbling. It must needs be but woe unto a man through whom
it cometh. After that, he said it is better to lose your hand, foot or eye
than to be cast into the fire that shall never be quenched, where the worm
dieth not and the fire is not quenched. It's just terrible to think about
what's in store for men and women who miss heaven and who fail to enjoy
eternal life. "But why dost thou judge thy brother or why dost thou
set at naught thy brother, for we shall all stand before the judgment seat
of Christ. As it is written, as I live saith the Lord, every knee shall
bow to me, every tongue shall confess to God." You'll have to
confess, my brethren, whether you want to or not. If you never confess
with the mouth that Jesus Christ is the Son of God, someday you will have
to, but it will do you no good. You'd better confess now unto salvation.
All of you who are in the Church and guilty of sin will confess sometime,
with a broken heart, but your confession will do no good. It'll do good
tonight. Make up your mind not to let the service close without it.
"Let us not therefore, judge one another, but judge ye this that no
man put a stumbling block in his brother's way." Oh, how important
that is. "But if thy brother be grieved with thy meat, now walkest
thou not charitably. Destroy not with thy meat for whom Christ died. For
the Kingdom of God is not meat and drink but righteousness and peace and
joy in the Holy Ghost. For he that in these things serveth Christ is
acceptable to God and approved of men." There is not a wicked man in
this country that will not approve a good man and a good woman. Remember
that it is good neither to eat flesh nor to drink wine nor anything
whereby thy brother stumbleth or is offended or is made weak. That reading
is found in Romans chapter fourteen. I wish when you go home tonight,
before you sleep that you will read that and make a note of these things
that I have read.
There
are several things that I want to get before you tonight. One is, you
can't neglect one another without neglecting Christ. You can't wrong each
other without wronging Christ. You can't sin against each other without
sinning against Christ. I would to God that I had the power to express and
emphasize that solemn truth. Let me repeat that. You can't neglect each
other without neglecting Christ. Now isn't that true? He said, "These
shall go away into everlasting punishment." Why? Because they had
neglected him, that's why. He said, "I was hungry and you gave me no
meat, I was thirsty and ye gave me no drink. I was sick and ye visited me
not. In prison and ye came not unto me, a stranger and ye took me not
in." You made excuses for not doing that. "Inasmuch as you did
it not to the least of these my brethren, ye did it not to me." You
just can't neglect one another without neglecting the Christ, you can't do
it. No wonder he commanded us to love one another as he loved us. No
wonder he prayed that we might all be one, that the sinners of the world
might have faith in him. The reason infidelity is on the increase is
because of a lack of this among the disciples of Christ. Strife, division
and contention, hatred and malice, slights and slurs and mistreatment,
neglect and insinuation, that's the reason that infidelity is on the
increase. We have it in our power to force the world to believe that we
are the disciples of Christ. We have it in our power to force the world to
believe in Jesus Christ by being one. That doesn't mean that we see every
little thing alike. It doesn't mean that, but it does mean that each of us
and all of us, like God and Christ, wants every mortal upon earth saved
and have a kind, tender feeling toward every man and woman in the church
because we are members of one common family, because we are brethren and
sisters in the Lord.
While
my wife and I do not agree about every little thing, God knows that my
whole heart's desire is for the good and happiness of that little woman.
God knows that. I am sure without a doubt that woman loves me above every
thing else in the world and that her whole heart's desire and prayer to
God is to be true to me. We don't see every little thing alike, but we
stick together. That's what I am trying to get before you. She has faults.
They don't look like much to me though. And I have faults, but I doubt she
sees them. Why? Just because she loves me. And I read in the word of God
that love shall cover a multitude of sins. Let's remember that, love shall
cover a multitude of sins. Then some other things we ought to think about.
Christ said one time, "All things therefore whatsoever ye would that
men should do unto you, do ye even so to them." That means that I
would treat you and everybody as I would have them treat me.
Up
at Daus several years ago a young man came to church drunk. Cursed, used
vulgar talk in front of girls and women. Soon as service was over one of
the brothers said, "Let's you and I go down to the telephone, call
the sheriff, and get the young man put in jail. I knew very well who the
young man was. I knew very well he was not the son of one of these
brethren but I said to one of them, "Is that your son?"
"No." "Well what would you do if it was your son? Would you
have him arrested? Put him in jail?" Of course his face turned red
and he dropped his head and said, "What do you say? I said, "I'm
not saying anything, I'm trying to get you to say. What would you
do?" He dropped his head and said, "I suppose." I said,
"No you don't." He said, "I'd take him home and wait till
he got sober and I would talk to him and try to get him to right the wrong
he had done." "All things therefore whatsoever ye would that men
do to you, do ye even so to them."
Up
in Doyle, Tennessee, when I was a young man in school, a fine young woman
was betrayed by a treacherous young man, led astray and committed a
terrible wrong. What did the father do? He took her home and protected her
and stood between her and the world. She had a great big strapping
brother. With tears in his eyes he put his arms around her and said,
"God bless you. You've done wrong but I'll stick with you as long as
you live." Now that's what we would do with our loved ones and that's
what we are to do toward our brethren and sisters in Christ. People go
wrong. When our own go wrong we put our arms around them. We deeply
sympathize with them and we try honestly and prayerfully to save them.
That's exactly what Christians ought to do. That's why Christ said,
"All things therefore . " Suppose a young lady goes wrong in
this community, and you needn't be surprised if they do. Some of my
brethren talked to me last night as if they were surprised when boys do
wrong. I'm not surprised. I've got more sense than that. It's human
nature. It is easy to sin, easy to go wrong, and there are times when if
the tempter spoke to you as softly as he did to them, you'd yield too. My
friends, do we do that when a girl goes wrong? Do all men do as they would
do if it were their daughter. If not, why not?
Now
listen at this. I preached on this at Bridgeport last Sunday morning,
"Therefore lift up the hands which hang down, and the feeble knees
and make straight paths for your feet, that that which is lame be not
turned out of the way. Rather let it be healed." You and I are our
brother's keeper. We are responsible one for another. Paul said, "Ye
are all members one of another." Why you can't injure the least
member of this body without hurting me, my whole body. You can't injure
the least member of the body of Christ without hurting all the body of
Christ. So my friends, in I Corinthians 8-12, "When you sin against
the brethren wounding their weak conscience, you sin against Christ."
What
I'm trying to get before you tonight is that you are to love one another
as Christ loved you. I noticed that brother Shaw in his prayer confessed
his weakness and his unworthiness, and I have to too. Let's remember we
are to love one another as Christ loved us. How much did he love us? He
died for us. He suffered for us, leaving us an example we should follow in
his steps. Right here in this congregation, when I was a young fellow a
young woman went wrong and became the mother of a little child, and
several women in the congregation refused to go and talk to the girl. Now
I remember that. I said to brother Simpson Holder, I am too young to talk
to a young woman like that by myself. If you'll go with me, I want to go
talk to that girl. I went and talked to her, and she came to church that
night and confessed her faults and if she has ever done wrong since, we
have no knowledge of it. "Let him know that he that converted a
sinner from the error of his ways shall save a soul from death and shall
hide a multitude of sins." Then again in Galatians 6:1-2, "If a
man be overtaken in a fault " now listen and get this, "ye which
are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of meekness." The right
thing must be done in the right way. But before we can do what Christ said
do in John 13:34, there is another thing we must do. That's in Ephesians
4:31, "Let all bitterness ...." Now you be sure that in your
heart there's no bitterness against anyone. I know by sad experience what
I'm preaching. A man who lives 80 years will have his share of heartaches,
heart breaks, trials, temptations and difficulties, and I've had mine. I
know by sad experience that sometimes it surely is a cross, like putting
out the eye or cutting off the hand. Treat people right. I know that must
be done, because they are people first, and because second, we are saved
and must save others, that's why. What did he say? "Let all
bitterness . . . " Oh may we be sure there is no bitterness in our
heart toward anyone. My friends, you can't realize how hard it's been for
me in my life. Take people by the hand and talk to them kindly, who have
tried to ruin me. It almost broke my heart, but I had it to do and the
best thing I ever did was that. Because Paul said, "I am crucified
with Christ, nevertheless I live, yet not I but Christ liveth in me."
The hardest thing I ever had to do in my life is to get down on my knees
and pray God to bless a man who had slandered and lied on me and tried to
destroy me and my influence. But when I decided to do that, I conquered
the man who had been my enemy. It hurt me. I didn't want to do it. I read
a letter full of blasphemy, falsehood and misrepresentation. I turned to
my wife and let her read it, and she cried as if her heart would break and
said, "Why do people do that?" "I do not know" I said.
"But" I said, "I know what God said for us to do. She said,
"What is it?" I told her, and I tell you, I did not want to get
down on my knees, but I did. And when I got up I was a better man. I want
to tell you something I think was a little funny at the time, but it
turned out right. I had a little girl there, my oldest child, a little tot
about 4 years old. She had listened to all of it. I never thought about
her, and when I got up she slapped her little hands and said, "We'll
come out right now." And we did. We always come out right when we do
right. "When a man's ways please the Lord," now listen, "he
maketh even his enemies to be at peace with him." The thing that the
world needs is Christianity. And the thing that the Church needs is love
for one another like God and Christ loved us. And then we need to be one.
We need to stick together no matter what a man does. Remember, the Church
should try to save him. I'll tell you I've never been able to make
anything but a cat out of a kitten. Never have, no matter how hard I
tried. I've never been able to make anything out of a pig but a hog but I
have helped to pick people up out of the dust of the earth and make noble
characters out of them because they are made in the image of Almighty God.
Nobody ever goes so far in life but what he's got a spark of divinity in
him. No woman ever goes so far but what there's something good about her.
It's your mission and duty, and mine, to convert the erring and strengthen
the weak to help men and women through life. I'll tell you, you have no
idea how many people come to me and tell me that if it had not been for me
they couldn't have made it.
Why
a man in Bridgeport got so sorry (If I were to call his name, brother Shaw
would know him well), got so sorry he was ragged as a tramp and dirty as a
pig and his family nearly starved. His little boy died. Not a man in
Bridgeport went to the funeral but me and the undertaker and taxi driver.
Not a woman went. I conducted the boy's funeral, and the undertaker and I
carried the little fellow in our lap to the burial ground. L. H. Hughes
and another person in Bridgeport got after this man and talked to him, and
one night when I preached in Bridgeport he came down the isle, clothes
dirty, body dirty, ragged, depressed, down and out, confessed his faults
and said he had made up his mind to try to live right. Why he could have
no more lived right than I could fly, without help. L. H. Hughes, a man
neatly dressed, went to him and put his arms around this man with dirty
clothes and said, "I love you and I want you to stick to it, I'm 'gonna
help you. I'm 'gonna stand by you." One other man went to him and
said the same. The rest got up and went out. One night I was walking to
Bridgeport with that man. Nice moonshiny night. He had got on his feet
then. Was a song leader in Bridgeport. Had made some public talks. As we
walked along, he turned around, faced me and said, "I'm going to get
to heaven, but I wouldn't have made it if it had not been for L.H. Hughes
and one other man. And strangely enough he dropped dead suddenly the next
day. His son today is one of the best preachers in the brotherhood.
Now
the question comes, do I love man as Christ loved me? Do you? Do I want
peace and harmony in the church above my own feelings, wishes,
inclinations, desires, and etc? Do I? How much am I willing to give, how
much am I willing to give up? How much am I willing to undergo, to bear,
to bring about the salvation of men and women? Paul said, "I become
all things to all men, that by all means that I might save some."
I've eaten at tables where I'd rather have taken what sister Hawkins
cooked and put it in a pig trough and eat it. I could do it with a better
stomach than places I've eaten in, but I've needed to save men, put them
on their feet. I did it all because I loved Christ. The question comes, do
you love Christ? Do you love him my friends, to the extent that you keep
his word? He said, "Love one another as I have loved you. By this
shall all men know that you are my disciples in that you have love one for
another." Then the other part, "That they all may be one."
We can't all agree. L. H. Hughes and I did not agree about everything.
John Loyd and the other elders in the church at Bridgeport and I do not
agree about everything, but thank God for 44 years they have stood by me
as faithful as men can, and I have tried to be faithful to them, because
I'm trying to practice what I preach, trying to live what God said live.
Be. cause for me to live is Christ, to die is gain. I want you to remember
this lesson. Remember we are to love one another as Christ loved us and
remember that we are all to be one, of one mind and with one mouth glorify
God. We can only do it by just sitting down and making up our minds and
say, "Oh! to be like Thee, Blessed Redeemer pure as thou art, Come in
thy sweetness, come in thy fullness, stamp thine own image deep in my
heart."
Get
this, a boy who has committed adultery and gone astray-treat him as you
would treat him if he were your boy. If a girl goes astray, for God's sake
and for humanity's sake, save her. One bad woman can do more harm than 100
men. Yes, they can. My old grandmother told me that a good woman was the
best thing in the world. I didn't know it then, but I do now. And she said
a bad one is the worst. I'm sure that's so. When a girl goes astray, a
good woman ought to go to work honestly and earnestly to rescue and save
her. Why, some of the finest women in the world have made mistakes as did
the mother of one of our Beloved Pioneer preachers, one of the greatest
the church ever had. He did not know his own father. One of the greatest
men, one of the best governors Tennessee ever had, never knew his own
father. We are not responsible for how we come into the world. There's
many a poor girl gone wrong. Many a boy goes wrong through weakness like
David did. Wronged some girl with no wrong intention. That's why we are to
love one another as Christ loved us. Now listen, "He has not dealt
with us after our sins," and thank God for that. "Nor rewarded
us according to our iniquities, for as the heaven is high above the earth
so great is his mercy toward them that fear him. Like as a father pitieth
his children the Lord pitieth them that fear him. As far as the East is
from the West so far hath he removed our transgressions from us." No
wonder the Psalmist David could say, "Bless the Lord, Oh my soul, all
that is within me bless his holy name." Then he said why, "Who
forgiveth all our iniquities. Who healeth all our diseases. Who satisfieth
our mouth with good things and crowns us with loving kindness and tender
mercy." It's a difficult thing to do some things. It's easy to do
some things. It's easy to do the most of things. It's hard sometimes or
Christ wouldn't have said "pluck your eye out, cut off your
hand." He wouldn't have said cut your foot off if it hadn't been
something hard to do. That's why he said if any man come after me let him
deny himself, take up his cross daily and follow me. May God help us to so
live and act that the world can see Christ in us. May we so live and act
that people will look to us, come to us, and expect help and sympathy and
understanding among us. You can't bring children up without understanding
them. You can't deal with men and women without understanding them. One of
the hardest things I've tried in my life is understanding people, to learn
them, to get their view, points and try to see their side of the question.
That's why he said, "Let us consider one another to provoke unto love
and good works."
If
you are here tonight, an erring Christian, God loves you just like he
always has. He grieves over your wayward condition because He knows you
are lost and knows what's in store for you if you don't turn back. All you
have to do is simply to say "I have sinned. I've done wrong, I'm
sorry. I've quit. I'll give up. I'll be faithful from now on." When
you have made that resolution, all you have to do is come and confess your
faults before the Church. You and the Church pray together, and you can
leave the house with your sins forgiven and your soul saved. If you've
never been a Christian, if you believe in Christ to that extent, you
believe what he said when he said "He that believeth and is baptized
shall be saved," if you believe that without a doubt, if you can say
"Lord, I believe that, I'm going to do that, I want you to save my
soul." If you can say that, you're ready to be baptized. If you can
say "I believe what Peter said when he said `Repent and be baptized
every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins'.
" If you can say, "I believe that, I'm going to do that and
trust God to save my soul, Christ to forgive my sins and give me the Holy
Spirit," you're ready to make the good confession and be baptized.
NOTE:
This sermon is one Brother Holder preached some years ago. Brother Silas
Shaw has it on tape and the Meltons in Bridgeport also have a copy of it
on tape in Brother Holder's original style and voice. We copied it here to
make it available to all. The wording is as near the same as Brother
Holder delivered it, as was possible to get off the tape. (JVC).
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Epilogue
RAY
HOLDER MELTON
Collaborator
NELL
HENSON HOLDER
FOREWORD
We humbly submit the life
of my earthly father as we knew him. He was not perfect, but like Paul, he
did press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in
Christ Jesus. Phillipians 3:14.
He knew as we know when we
shall have done all those things which are commanded of us, we are still
unprofitable servants. We have done that which was our duty. Luke 17:10.
We write not boastingly,
"For who maketh thee to differ from another? And what hast thou that
thou didst not receive? Now if thou didst receive it why dost thou
glory?" I Corinithians 4:7.
Every true and perfect
gift comes from God.
R.
H. M.
We
treasure the following articles because they were written by two of
daddy's Baptist friends, Mr. Roy Woodfin, now deceased, Editor of the
South Pittsburg Hustler, and Gertrude Jones, Correspondent for the
Hustler.
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A
GOOD MAN GOES TO HIS REWARD
By Roy M. Woodfin
On his way back from
Stevenson, Ala., where he went on business connected with this newspaper
Tuesday afternoon, its editor stopped at North Jackson Hospital to see one
of its patients, Bro. Charles Holder, Sr., who had spent several weeks in
his hospital room there. Unlike previous visits when the aging minister of
the gospel was found to be cheerful, he had fallen into a coma and life
for him was ebbing away. Notwithstanding this, his very fine daughter,
Mrs. Robert Melton, knowing something of our warm friendship, took us to
his bedside for a brief and last visit here on this mundane sphere with a
man whom we had long known and admired.
Leaving
the corridors of our neighboring hospital we were reminded that the
"ambitions and energies of men take root, even as a tree, in friendly
soil, and the achievements of men provide shade and protection for those
who come after them." And then it was that memories of other days
burst into our mind. We thought of the many times we had gone to his home
to have him read proof on tracts we were printing for him. These were the
ones referred to in the notice of his death on page one of this issue.
Brother
Holder, upon more than one occasion, had us go with him to his chicken lot
where he showed us his fine flock of white leghorns. From this brood he
sold many dozens of eggs annually for hatching purposes. We mention this
to show that he was thrifty and ambitious, characteristics attributed to
him in the notice of his death. He would show us his garden in which he
took much pride-especially his potato patch which was planted early and
which always yielded well if frosts did nit interfere.
We
mention these things to show that Brother Holder was nit a lazy man but
rather a man who went about doing good. His mission in life was to be of
benefit to his neighbor, and now that he is gone we shall join the many in
expressing sympathy to those grieved by his passing. Truly a mighty oak
has fallen, and it is justly true that "their works do follow after
them."
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COME
HOME MY SERVANT, WELL DONE
By Gertrude Jones
I
can say with the Psalmist "Precious in the sight if the Lord is the
death if his saints." Psalm 116:15.
We
know from God's Word that death is but the beginning of a larger fuller
life-life, that is life indeed. What greater joy, what greater advance on
progress can a Christian make, than to be in the presence if Him who
conquered death?
Death
has taken mire from our city than the soul if Bro. Charles Holder, Sr. It
has taken a bit from the heart if every person who was fortunate enough to
be numbered among his acquaintances and friends.
He
was mire nearly Christ like in his concept if good than any man I have
ever known. His front door and his kind heart remained open to all who
cared to enter, and no one went away without feeling they were a better
person.
Brother
Holder's life was another pattern if service above self to his fellowman
and to the community he lived. He belittled no man's belief and that
endeared him to this Baptist friend. I see him now listening intently
ready with words if comfort or counsel. The law if conscience was in
everything he did. Because he believed in God, he believed in man.
The
church was filled to an overflow fir the funeral services on Friday, April
28. It was his wish that his funeral be kept simple and inexpensive and he
once said "throughout his life he had more flowers than his share
given to him by friends who lived him."
The
sings included his favorite hymns which he had selected.
I
cannot say that Brother Holder is no mire fir he will be remembered after
the youngest person who attended his funeral be crumbled into dust,
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THE SILVER LINING
"How
beautiful are the feet if them that preach the gospel if peace and bring
glad tidings of good things". Romans 10:15.
We
never fully comprehended the beauty and meaning if this scripture until we
knew daddy Holder. Nell H. Holder.
He
preached and lived this wonderful gospel fir over sixty years. In his own
words, "we have tried faithfully to obey I Corinthians 15:58, and be
governed by the truths if Luke 4:18, Acts 20:33-35, Romans 15:20-21, I
Corinthians 9:22, Galatians 2:20 and Philippians 1:20-21."
Of
course I have made many mistakes, but I have never list sight of I John
1:7-10 and 2:1-6. I have never taken a vacation. I have never been a
member of anything except the "One Body." It takes all of my
affections, time, effort and means to be "just a Christian. I put my
trust in Christ and in Matthew 28:18-20. Christ has never failed me, and I
trust that through His blood and the Mercy if God and the help of the Holy
Spirit to obtain eternal life."
"In
order to live up to his high motives, he was a continuous seeker after
truth. He wouldn't embroider a story to make it better to save his
life." -Gertrude Jones.
Daddy's
life was one if simplicity and devotion. Devotion to God, family, friends
and all who needed help.
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A MORNING RESOLVE
"I
will this day try to live a simple and sincere life; repelling promptly
every thought if discontent, anxiety, discouragement, impurity, and self-seeking;
cultivating cheerfulness magnanimity, charity, and the habit if holy
silence; exercising economy in expense, carefulness in conversation,
diligence in appointed service, fidelity to every trust, and a child-like
faith in God." I Timothy 6:6-19. Author
Unknown
This
brief paragraph, a favorite if his, which he printed in many of his tracts
exemplified his manner of life.
He
always displayed nit only a great courage and perseverance but individual
dignity. We always marveled because he was so dignified yet so warm and so
human.
He
never gave flowers in memory if a departed one. He gave the flowers in
life, kind words, a letter if encouragement, often a good book.
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GIVE THE
FLOWERS NOW